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writes:i have been seeing a guy for the past 4years.its had its up and downs. he has felt that i have put constant pressure on him and am probably guilty of it. when we are together we normally get along fine. lack of time is the problem and i put pressure on him to see him. now he has told me that he doesnt want to see me any more and wont reply to me.i really care about him and miss him. i know he does care about me. what is the best way to try and win him back Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): If things were right between you you would not have to keep pushing for more time, he would have wanted it too and you would have been compatible. The problem is you weren't and you can honestly find someone much better and suited to you where you spend as much time as you are happy with. It is a horrible feeling when you feel like you are being constantly rejected after asking to have more time and being fobbed off with excuses. You need to consider whether you really want to feel like this constantly and I'm sure the answer is no. I know he probably constantly told you he did like you as much as you liked him, wished he could spend more time with you etc and I have been there its horrible because you look around at other people's relationships and they seem to spend so much more time together, it eats away at you. I think the best thing for you would be to move on x
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reader, joe26  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 agree with baby duck. It's the best for you to move on as he decided to move on...definately there will be someone who can give you all what you wanted.
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reader, yanza +, writes (5 June 2009):
 just give him time.
if you two have been together for 4 years there must of been some really strong feeling between you two and i doubt that they have just died away. he does still care for you but just wants his space so let him have it for a while.
hope that helped good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): I would say - move on , get going with your own aims and intentions and keep him posted on your moves. Hopefully he will realise what he is missing?
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