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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, I started dating this girl in HS. She was my first g/f and we dated 2 yrs. I broke up with once after a 1 1/2 years then asked her out again for another 1/2 yr and then broke up with here again. Soon after I started dating another girl for 10 months and then we broke up.My first g/f was mad at me for both break ups but was always there for me. After me and my other g/f broke up she talked with me, hung out with me, and before i knew it we were becoming clingy and flirty. Kissing, hanging out alot. It's been off and on like this for the past 9 months, and as each day goes by is another day i waste not being with her. She has a possible new b/f but I know she has feelings for me still cuz not even 2 weeks ago we hung/made out.I have no idea what to do, cuz if i wait then i'll lose her. But I don't know if I'm still in love, or if i'm jealous of the new b/f.We always got along great, but I'm afraid that If i do pursue her and get her back i'll screw her over again, but I feel depressed not being with her and thinking about her.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): You should talk to her, tell her how you feel. It's no good keeping it bottle up inside neither waiting because you will only have regrets. Just tell her how you feel about her then just wait for what she says. If you're lucky she might feel the same way. Just go for it, you've got nothing to loose. Good luck
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (6 June 2009):
 Only you can change yourself. If you're going to ask her out again, make a daily commitment to yourself that you're going to be the best boyfriend you can. That means being honest and treating her like the awesome lady that she is.
If you're only going after her because you're jealous, stay away. Let her be happy.
Take some time to think about this and straighten out your feelings. Only you know if you can do it.
Good luck.
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