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Should I risk being too forward, or risk losing her to someone else?

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Question - (5 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ighwayOne83 writes:

I've known this girl at my school for a couple months now. We sit next to each other in history class. She is pretty flirty with me. We make jokes, poke fun at each other, etc. We talk a lot on Facebook; we've spent the last couple of days talking about completely random things. We share a lot of the same interests; sports, tv shows, music, etc. She is single. I want to ask her out (as in to hang out, but I do want to date her), but I'm not sure if I should wait a little bit longer or not. Should I ask her now and risk looking really forward, or should I wait and risk losing her to someone else? Any advice would be great. Thanks!

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A male reader, HighwayOne83 United States +, writes (6 June 2009):

HighwayOne83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much! :)

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A female reader, jalmetha United States +, writes (6 June 2009):

jalmetha agony auntThat's a great idea!

I hope it works out for you!!

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A male reader, HighwayOne83 United States +, writes (6 June 2009):

HighwayOne83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the reply!

I think I'll try that. She's not much of a movie lover, but we both are avid Braves fans, so I think I'll try asking her if she wants to go with me to their game. :)

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A female reader, jalmetha United States +, writes (5 June 2009):

jalmetha agony auntIt seems that you two have a lot in common.

You should test the waters and ask her to go some where as friends, but don't say "we will go as friends".

Say something like, hey I really want to see that new movie, you want to go with me? You two go, have a great time, hang out in mall bit, thank her for going and if you think things are going well, very casually give her a hug. Nothing slow or hand roving, just a "thanks for comming with me hug". That's it. Talk to her again that night on Face Book and you have planted a seed. Hopefully one that will grow into a relationship.

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