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writes:I'm 19 and she's 18 now. We dated for a short time starting in December '06. Every few months she still reminds me that she loves me and would like a second chance, but I always said no because since then she has dated around 22 guys (not even kidding, some for like 2 weeks-1 month and a few for like 3+ months).She was my first and only girlfriend really, I know I could go out and look for more but even after over 2 years I still think about her a lot. I currently live a 24 hour drive from her because I'm going to college, but when I finish she said I could move in with her and her friend which will be in January. She pretty much asked me out again last month but I said no again to her. Last night I thought about it a lot and figured if she really has changed (she used to be slutty, and she even just had a baby in march) then I figured I would live with her for a couple weeks and if things went well I would date her again. The main 2 reasons I haven't dated her is because A. she was being slutty and B. She has had a crazy amount of boyfriends since me.She's not lying when she says she loves me. She has written me a song on guitar to try to get back together with me and she also wrote a song for me about how much she cared about me (when I told her I wanted her out of my life last summer).She always tells me that if I were out of her life she would probably go crazy and that I now mean more to her than anyone, including her best friends. But today I found out she's dating another guy. I have tried to just forget about her and see if another girl ever comes by, but none have. Does anybody have any ideas of what I should do?P.S. sorry for the long letter, I try to be detailed and this is only 1/5 of the whole long story.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): People don't change their ways easily. You could very well be in for a bunch of heartbreak and expectations in your mind that you can never fulfil for her. Don't put yourself through it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): You're attached to someone who is from a different world. For you, she's your first an only girlfriend. For her, you're probably the only sane voice in a whirlwind of guys and life experiences. Good grief, she has a baby and she's still out meeting new guys??
Move on, man!
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