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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I just started dating but the problem is my best friend likes him and she liked him frist. At first I didn't feel the guilt because I was happy but now I feel sooo guilty and for some reason now I hate him. Please help me with my situation because I don't know what the hell to do!
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 You should of never went out with him in the first place, especially if you didn't even talk to her about it first.
I don't want to say never put a boyfriend before your bestfriend - because it happens, whether we like it or not, and yes friendships do get ruined because of it.
But in all reality, if we isolate ourselves from our friends for a boy who we most likely won't be together forever with, then who do we have in the end? and thats when it really slaps you in the face.
BOYS ARE NOT WORTH OUR FRIENDSHIPS!(especially at this age) trust me I learned the hard way! So please, put your relationship on hol, and work things out with your friend first.
I'm not going to be remorseful for your guilt, because you should feel guilty. Sorry it sounds rude - but it's the truth.
I hope things all work out for you in the end
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reader, shaniquas3 +, writes (5 June 2009):
i think you should talk to your friend about it and tell her that you really like him and your sorry that you went with him but yall had major chemistry and you loved it!!!if she is your real friend she'll understand..and why would you be mad at him ????
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