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writes:What do I tell my boyfriend? He treats me like I'm his trophy. He ignores me all the time and would rather have me at his side when he wants to compare me with his friends girlfriends. I used to like him but I don't any more. He acts like I'm not there. I don't want to break up with him because I don't want to hurt him. I don't know why he's acting like this. I'm always there for him. It's like hes embarrassed when I hug him or tell him I love him. I need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): You're frustrated. If this boyfriend of yours isn't reciprocating what you desire, even the most basic of things in an intimate relationship, then I would implore you to dump his ass and seek out others who would be more sensitive towards you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha thanks for that lil romantic part. your a romantic man arent u? he told me i was a very special girl and that i had pretty eyes. but that was once, about two months ago. and no he doesnt talk to me. just in class around his friend. he got me a necklace. thats it. am i complaining? im sorry. just forget it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Let me get this straight: You don't want to hurt him, therefore, you refuse to leave him. On the other hand, he treats you like a trophy, expected to compliment him and ignores you which in turn, hurts you.
Now, you're here on this site, asking us how we can help you.
Question: How do you expect us to help you, if you cannot even help yourself? I mean, this has a pretty obvious answer. However, to give him the benefit of the doubt and say he is actually a very sweet boy, has he always been this way?
Maybe he is shy? Maybe he is inexperienced and doesn't know what to do with you? Maybe he is getting advice from people whom have Lucky Charms for brains? Maybe he wanted a girlfriend to show others that he also has a girlfriend?
The list goes on, but take away the benefit of the doubt and you're left with the same problem.
What can you do? Do you really seriously want to do more for a fellow like him? What has he ever done for you? Has he even cared about you? Does he even talk with you? Does he even share his life's ideas with you? Does he ask you questions about your ideas, your dreams, you goals? Does he sincerely want to spend time with you? Cook with you? Put together a jigsaw puzzle and write little poems to you with really mushy words? "Baby, your eyes sparkle like the infinite ocean of stars, that shine on our love. You, the sun in my life, the lighthouse that guide my heart, forever, my yearning for you beats with every breath you make and every kiss I take from you..."
Hahaha. Sorry.
So, tell me, what has he done for you?
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