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writes:i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tuyen  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 He is pressuring you into having sex. So, if he was really interested in you and he really likes you enough, he would understand that you don't feel ready, and he would wait.Take a moment to think this through. In most cases like this, after the boy has sex with the girl, they usually break up with them after getting what they want, which leaves the girl regretting it afterwards. Also, boys are prone to boasting to their friends about who they had sex with. This usually results in the girl being called nasty names and rumours tend to fly around school about her. Also, people will see you as easy, and they will treat you tha way.So, is it really worth it to give in to his selfish needs, even though you aren't ready? What about you? Do you think that he cares about how you feel in all of this, sweety? He doesn't. That's why he's pressurising you, because he's being selfish and is only thinking of himself (I'm sorry, i'm being brutally honest here, but you have to know this stuff).Why don't you hold out for a while to see if he will stick around if you don't give him what he wants? If he doesn't then you will be thankfull for keeping your virginity and thankfull for not having to go through the pain of losing it for someone who trully wasn't worth it.Respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, then your boyfriend won't either. If you do have sex with him, then please use a condom, you might end up pregnant, or catch sexually transmitted diseases or infections if you don't. Let me know how you get on sweety. Tuyen =) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): If you have the smallest possible feeling you dont want to then my suggestion is dont do it...13 is very very very young...just hold it of for a while...youll be glad you did
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reader, massdestruction3 +, writes (21 February 2009):
 You are way too young, maybe if ya would look at some of the posts here. Many of the same questions.Never have sex until your both ready, and he shouldn't ever force you or pressure you to do something you don't want to do. Your too young anyways, and I think you should get a new mate, He shouldn't ask you to do something your not comftorable. Sex is not enjoyable unless your both ready, and you obviously are not ready. Tell him NO, if he won't take it, dump him.And if you do, wear a condom for heavens sake
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (21 February 2009):
 No, no, NO! You are just 13. Life has barely begun for you. Don't do if you think you're in love and you think that if you do it you'll "fit in" at school. Your virginity is a very sacred thing and it should be taken when 1) you and your guy are very much in love and 2) you are ready to accept the responsibilities (pregnancy, STDs, etc.) Of course, in my opinion, after marriage is always best. If your boyfriend keeps pressuring you into having sex, then he doesn't care enough for your feelings.Good luck,a 25-year old virgin
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): you shouldn't maybe u guys could start fingering its way better sometimes. wish u luckxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): You are not ready if you are on here asking what to do. If he is pressuring you than please don't give in just because he wants to have sex. Do it because you feel ready. Why not wait until you are a bit older and much more educated about sex. Your body isn't ready for all of this "grown up stuff" just yet.
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