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How long should we wait before taking the next step?

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Question - (21 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, I know this seems silly but I've been best friends with this guy for 13 years and we've started going out now. We have trust and respect for each other, we're not afraid to tell each other what we want and we have a good balance between friendship and intimacey. But because we're so comfortable around each other, I feel that maybe we'll move to quickly on the physical side of things. We've been together for three months and all we've done is very heavy making out (nothing else, just kissing and a little bit of heavy petting)

How long do you generally think you should wait before taking the next step with someone? And I don't mean sex, the both of us want to wait until we've been together a year for that, I mean like oral etc

Thanks :)

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A female reader, C.In Love United States +, writes (21 February 2009):

C.In Love agony auntHi,

it all depends on how you feel.

there is not a set time on how long you should wait.

you just feel ready when you are.

there is no one in the world to tell you how long you should wait. its about when you will be ready and feel it is right

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