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I love flirting, so why do girls seem to lose interest after a few months?

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Question - (12 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

why when i start flirting with girls they get very interested as some of the girls they have always admired me for a very long time and then we start flirting and joking they say all nice things and how they feel when they are with me though they are mostly all married like me, after few months they keep a step behind. well they still flirt but the phone calls stop and texts too or get less and less. i still do the same thing and jokes and praise their beauty. as i dont want to have sex with them and i think neither do they i just love flirting thats all

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):

also I hope she tells you its just harmless flirting too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):

i think its fun to take a harmless compliment in the flirting form. but the truth is in the end its all bs. I had a bf who liked to flirt.. the key word is HAD.... he never cheated on me physically ever.. but, he would always make it seem as though he were available. So to me if you want to seem available then you should be available.

Cause what you are giving away is your wifes. Its called emotional cheating. What you are doing with them belongs to HER.

THat says a lot about your character. Does your wife know your out there flirting it up with other women? maybe she should do some flirting about how you never measured up anyway and he does. how hes built so well.. and well, your kinda old anyway. cause that is how women view that as they are no longer good enough and you are looking for somthing else.

you want to know the truth? I feel sorry for you wife and hope she snags a super hot cabana boy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):

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well yes my wife knows that i flirt and so does she as well. i think thier hubbys know what i am like and know i am safe as well. its fun talking witht he opposite sex as long as each partyn knows there is never any other chance of developing. talking my dear is not danegerous and i do that right in front of thier hubbys so its not like i am doing behind thier backs yes naughty jokes i leave it when we are alone

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):

You say your married, quite honestly you shouldnt be texting and ringing these women!!! A little harmless flirting is fine but us women generally think that if a guy is flirting then he must be interested!!! How would you feel if you knew your wife was getting this interest from other men? Key is flirt away but no need to exchange numbers etc - your a married man!!!

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