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writes: Me and my boyfriend are together for 1 year and 6 months and we had great sex in the beginning but nowadays he tells me that I don't participate in the times when we have sex..... Can you please tell me what I can do before it's too late and before I lose him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Just ask him exactly what it is that he'd like you to do. Perhaps he'd like you to be rather more vocal or to wriggle your hips a bit but I can only guess at what he thinks is missing.
Sex should be spontaneous though, and putting on an act is hardly going to improve things for you. He should accept you for all you are, not what he'd like you to be.
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