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writes:I have been dating this guy for two months and one of his best friends is a girl. I know her and she is nice to me but there is something i cant really put my finger on it but something weird about their relationship. She has a husband and a child but she is only 20 years old and very very good looking. I wasnt jealous until this past Christmas that she got him football tickets worth 150 dollars, and he got her some super expensive perfume around the same price. I got nothing for Christmas though because he was tight on money?? He also shares toooo much information with me like how his friends have told him how hot they think she is and that her husband is a goofball. He also tells me about all the fights that they have and how she has told him that she doesnt love him anymore. He consistently tells me how she is the only person in the world that knows him the best. Her husband is his best friend too, and he has told me that at one point her husband thought that they were having an affair. I find this whole entire friendship eeexxttrrreeemmmlllyyy weird, and the fact that he gives me so much information about their friendship annoys me. He is a sweet guy, but all these little things have been adding up and i am getting fed up. I just dont know if i am overracting and should relax a bit or if i am right about feeling this way. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea all my friends have told me the same thing i just wanted some outside perspective. Yea definetly its only been two mths i like him but im not attached so im getting outt noww! thanks everyone!
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reader, prenezmoila +, writes (29 December 2008):
 You should bail on this relationship. Keep him in your life to some extent if he really means something to you, but for now, he doesn't know where his feelings really lie. He needs to figure out what he's feeling before he commits to someone. This is going to hurt you in the end.
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reader, Nycee25 +, writes (29 December 2008):
This relationship sounds like the recipe for heartbreak. You really deserve better. They have an emotional bond, which is very common between friends of the opposite sex. Even if they stay friends forever, you don't want another female to be first before you.
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reader, IndianGuide  +, writes (29 December 2008):
If he loved you, there is no doubt, that he would have got you something.
Heck, this is the first Christmas you guys are together.
He is in love with her.
Get out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): He's in love with her. Seriously, get out of this relationship. He doesn't love you, you are just a girl in the holding place to use until he gets with his best friend. He didn't get you anything for Christmas because he didn't have money and yet he bought her perfume? Yeah, I think you know this and are just wondering if you're right. You deserve better.
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