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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She lied about her age but her reason was valid...I think? What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I'v been dating a girl for almost 5 months, but recently she has told me her true age :( I initially met her in a night club (pub) hence didnt query her age when she told me she was 18. Plus she looked 18, and the staff of the club must ha...

Two guys and whom do I like more? I can't decide..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm sorry to bother you but I'm in a big bit of trouble. A few months ago I got together with a good friend of mine who I had always thought I wanted to be with. However we never made it official and while away on holiday I got together...

Can two people who genuinely care and love each other make their relationship work even if they are living two seperate lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of three years and I have recently split. It has completely devasted me as I thought of her as my future wife. After putting the pieces together, I have come to the conclusion that the biggest reason for the break-up was because we are ...

He can't commit to me 100% as he is only "85% healed" from the previous relationship. Is this fair to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for one year and a half. I moved in with him as of September 1, 2006. I am newly divorced and he is legally separated. His wife left him August 31, 2005. He has told me he is still healing and that I need to be patient ...

My parents don't like my girlfriend and are starting to turn my head round to their way of thinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 37. I'm into her (I'm not sure I love her though) but my parents and family isn't big time. They're also not thrilled about her having a 15 year old son. They keep telling me I'm being suckered in cause sh...

Why would a guy say one thing then leave me waiting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - They say men are from mars and women are from venus...how true!! ok so me and my ex have been in contact since we split up a few years ago hes been telling me over the weekend how much he still fancies me but when he arranged to meet me tonight in a ...

I heard he's going to ask me to marry him and I don't know what to say to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I am going out with a guy and I have been for almost a year now. His friends have told me that he's going to ask me to marry him. At first when they told me I was really excited about it because we were both really into each other, but now when ...

Do I have the right to be upset about her being so close to her work colleague?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Ive dated a girl for 3 yrs. Ive caught her in lies. At functions or a few parties she used to ignore me and talk to others, that was in the beginning. My big question, she went on a college recruiting trip for a company, when she flew up to meet ...

Should I patiently wait for the house or rent a flat with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My bf started his own business 2 weeks ago. His goal is to earn enough so we can buy a house together and live comfortably. I once said to myself I’m not going to be marrying/moving in with a guy unless we have our own house. It has been hard for me ...

I told my mom my boyfriend is 12 years older than me, now she's going to tell my stepdad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im 19 years old and have a bf whos older then me he is 31, ive told my mom as i thought i could tell her, but she keeps saying she is going to tell my step dad but i know he will leave if she does what should i do as i really like this guy and i ...

Living with the bf will mean a very long commute for me to work! Will this interfere in our relationship in the furture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distant relationship (2hrs drive) but still make every effort to see each other every weekend. Since now our relationship has become more serious, not seeing him for a week drives us crazy. We are looking into moving ...

Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? Any views?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? My boyfriend’s parents absolutely love me and want us to get married. On the other hand, my parents always try to find things to criticize about and tell me I should wait and see ...

Dealing with my bf and his ex at their daughter's b'day party. How should I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend’s daughter is having a 7th birthday party next weekend. It’s going to be at my boyfriend’s ex’s house. For some reason, I’m feeling uneasy about it. I’ve been to the girl’s birthday party last year and seeing the 3 of them together ...

Not sure if he's the one I want..however, a new guy looks interesting! Should I go on a 'break'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, and things have been great. but recently they have faded pretty badly. I know i love him and i want to be with him but i think things are going to burn out. There is another guy i know ...

He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I a...

We're on a break as my girlfriend has said she doesn't trust me and it's driving me mad not seeing her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I would like some input on this as its very upseting for me and i feel i have no control over the situation. Me and my girlfriend are on a break for 1 month. She feels she cannot trust me because a few weeks ago we had an argument and my ex ...

Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage? Even if they are mid twenty?...

How do I decide if 'He genuinely made a mistake'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Soon after me and my ex boyfriend broke up he got together with a girl he knew. I removed myself from the picture as he had been rude and disrespectful towards me throughout the 1 year relationship and I guess he had her ready for when he broke up ...

I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting really mixed signals. We were best friends for about 4 years + we really close and then we both had relationships with other people for about 2 years and we drifted, but then we became ...

We had an argument and he stayed out all night, checked his phone- was put on hold and heard her talking about payment for sexual services!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hi all, in a bit of a delenma, wonder could u help me with some advice or opinions. Myself and my boyfriend are 3yrs together, we have 2yr old son. Had terrible row that lasted whole weekend, we are both very head strong people and neither of us ...

Should I throw a party for him as a surprise for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriends birthday is coming soon, and i want to make it special because his last two birthdays have not been so great! im thinking along the lines of a surprise. should i throw the party at his place? he has two roommates, who love throwing ...

How would someone get into there 30's and still be single and never married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - How would someone get into there 30's and still be single and never married? why would they have a lot of (short term) failed relationships? is it just bad luck or is there something wrong with them?...

How do I stop myself being jealous about his ex's??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - How do I get over my bf's past? I am 23 and he is 34 and has had a lot of girlfriends. We have been together for nearly 5 years we live together and have a young baby when i met him i knew he had a past- we met through a friend of mine who was...

I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and want to initiate foreplay. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - dear cupid !! i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months nearly now and the sexual tension between us gets reeally high . However, we have not done any foreplay or anything and i do not know how to start it and wandered if you have any ideas xx...

Special evening planned for my bf..just need some lingerie..any good online lingerie shops out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend comes back in three weeks from a five month trip. I really want his first night back to be special and memorable. Can anyone recommend any online lingerie shops? There are a million on the net and I don't want to end up with some...

Too shy..too scared of rejection! So how can I make a move on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - i am quite a shy person... when guys i am attracted to talk to me i usually freeze up and make a total and utter fool of myself. But on the same hand, i have never had any problem taking to "guy friends"... it's odd. Maybe it's just the idea of ...

She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i ...

Confused over two guys! One I have feelings with-one I can have a future with..which one is best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - ok so I'm dating this guy who was dating someone else at the time he figured out I liked him. About a month later he leaves his girlfriend and on the same day asks me out... saying he didn't think he would have asked so soon but... anyway he hugs ...

Dilemma about telling a good buddy.. he's dating his old gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down ...

Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do ...

Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?...

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

Any ideas on what to do for my boyfriend's birthday? I would like to do something very unique.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I need some ideas to make my boyfriends birthday special. He's gonna be 17. I want to do something unique, not just a take him out to eat at a nice restaurant kind of thing. Any ideas? I would like ideas for just me and him, or things I could do ...