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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She breaks a lot of dates without apologizing. How can I tell if she's playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - Before i even ask these ?'s I feel like I know the answers, but sometimes my own insecurities and self destructive behavior cloud my thinking and I just want some non-attached opinions and thoughts. I'll make it as short as possible. We live about ...

What does a guy really mean when he says "I'm busy?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - what is man really saying when he says "i'm busy"? ...

How do I stop being a sloppy kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriend said im a sloppy kisser how can i stop it? ...

I have a bf and the ex is in town! Would it be harmless to continue seeing my ex over the next few weeks or would be a betrayal of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I'm currently in a happy, fufilling relationship that's lasted for almost a year. I have no desire for this relationship to end. I've never, ever been unfaithful before, but last night i cheated on my boyfriend. The reason i did was because an e...

He keeps asking when my parents are leaving so we can have sex! Is he only interested in one thing or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - hey i kinda hav a boyfriend but we dont see each other much but my parents are goin away soon on holiday and im letting him come over for our first time together im kind of nervous as its my first time and he's been with 1 girl b4 the problem is ...

When he touches me I think he likes me but he says "he's just horny!" Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Ok well, I fancy this guy big time, and he would keep touching me, like dragging his hand up my leg and i get really happy coz its like yay u like me back, but he would say later, then he was just horny, god it hurts, and i tell him its unfair...

How can guys tell when a girl is desperate and when she is classed as 'easy'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I've heard that guys can tell if a girl is 'desperate' to get a guy/boyfriend. How can I guy tell exactly? Is it just when she is constantly throwing herself at guys or what? (Or is constantly throwing herself at guys classed as being 'easy' ...

I need help making a decision to emigrate to Australia to be with my bf! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hi - I need some help to decide whether to emigrate to Melbourne in Australia! A couple of years ago I separated from my husband having been married for 12 years. That relationship was abusive. I have since been seeing a great guy for 12 months ...

What is going in a guy's head when he says "we should go out sometime" and then.... he just forgets he said it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - sorry but i was just wondering what going on if a guy says to me that 'oh, we should go out whenever', then when i reply 'yea', he seems to forget that and doesn't mention it again? do i seem desperate or too interested in him? i'm not sure if i'm ...

My best guy friend got a bit tipsy and told me he loved me but...he's got a gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Right. There's a boy with a girlfriend. I'm in love with him. He's my best friend. He always asks me to go places with him on our own and when I say " Won't your girlfriend hate the idea of this?" and his reply will always be " It doesn't matt...

How do I tell this guy, who says he loves me, I'm not ready for a relationship right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - The guy I am dating has already started called me 'love', saying he loves me, etc, wanting to see me all the time. I like him, and I think he's great, but I'm not ready for a relationship at the moment, and especially not one that is moving this ...

I think im bored in my relationship and its really irritating me. what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - I don't know whats wrong with me but I seem to think negative about my relationship and girlfriend. Im not sure but I think im bored in my relationship and its really irritating me. All we ever do is the same and now my girlfriend won't even visit ...

He says he's never felt like this for anyone-but, he is a player! Should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Well I’ve been friends with this guy for about 3 years, and we were always very close. He’s what you call a player, and hugs all the girls at school (including me). In the last year, he’s said he fancies me, and I like him that way too. In the last...

My finacee resents my new online guy friend from NZ! He has female friends...so why can't I have male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hello, I really need help here... I'm engaged and living with a man for the past 3 years now..things are going well, and I really only have one complaint. He works these crazy hours and I almost never see him..now I know everyone has to work, so ...

I am worried that my fears of my ex not being honest with me will get worse. What can I doto overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone ...

We will still date but he's leaving to another state! I hate this and I told him..why doesn't he listen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend is going to Missouri, leaving me. We will still be together, for the most part, but I can't stand having him leave me like that. I'm going to Boston on a trip so I'll be gone for three days out of around like 6 or 7 he is. What...

He's looking a nude pics of his ex who models on this website! It hurts-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since Nov 2005. We currently live together. Last week I found out he was looking at pics of his ex on the internet. She's on this website modeling in the nude. Thing is we had loads of problems with him before chatting ...

He likes me more that just a friend! I only want a friendship with him-How do I tell him without causing him hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - i know is guy and weve been friends for like a week. hes awsome. he makes me laugh. hes kind. etc the problem is that i think (as all of my friends have alredy told me) that he wants to be more than "just friends" with me. I dont im fine with he ...

Am I being selfish by not telling my bf, I have cheated on him twice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hi there I have been dating this guy for 3 years and we are still madly in love. The problem is I have cheated twice during those years. I feel bad but dont want to lose him. I have changed my ways and dont cheat anymore, the relationship is ...

He seemed to be into me and now hes lost interest!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - What should i do in this situation?I like this guy ALOT,we used to work together,all he ever did was to look at me,but it never led to anything..I stil see him as hes a technician,im really into this guy yet it seems like he lost interst,i still see ...

Ive been with her a year and love her, but I'm worried shes ashamed of me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hiya I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year. I love her very much and believe that she feels the same way. The problem however is I feel she may be embarssed by me. In the time we've been together I've only met her flatmate and this ...

How are you supposed to put on weight to become more curvy without it going to your stomach ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - you know when people say boys like curvy girls, how ru ment to put on weight to be more curvy if u only put weight on ur stomach?...

Can this still be classed as rape as I just gave in to get it over quicker ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - i dont know if i was raped or not. i went to a party last week and got quite drunk. i didnt think i was that drunk but i do remeber people saying that i was sluring my words and there are parts of the night that i cant remeber. about 3 in the...

Ive lost all confidence with women, I have a good job, house etc, but underneath it all I'm stuck in this rut and desperately unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - I have been seperated from my wife of 14yrs for over 9 months and in that period i have had a couple of relaionships one which hurt me alot. We split because i didnt love her following many years of her gambling addiction and all the lies and stuff ...

How can I learn to trust men, when every guy I've dated dumps me after sex!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Okay, I dated this guy for like a week, and it was more of just a fling, but does that give him a right to just dump me after having sex.. even though I told him all about my past and how every guy always does that to me. He promised he wouldn't ...

Should I tell my bf I saw another man come out of the shower with just a towel on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I am an Indian girl in USA and have a boyfriend in India who I known since 6 years. I went on a business trip with this friend of mine (male,Indian) who is sweet and nice but I have never developed any sort of feelings for him. We were sharing a b...

Out of the blue-she tells me she wants a break! I have no idea what to say, think or feel, I'm just hurt! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - I have a serious problem, my girlfriend has recently told me that she wants to take a break to have space and to think if she really wants to be with me, she has also told me that she has become really flirty and doesnt want to hurt me and wants to ...

I had done so much to help my bf with his courses at uni and now--we've broken up! I am heartbroken..any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6402 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months. We are both in university pursuing an undergrad degree and we live together. Right now he is at home with his family because his dad has recently had major surgery. I don't really know where to ...

Does my friend "with benefits" suddenly have feelings for me? Can anything serious grow out of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I was, for approximatley 4 months, sleeping with a guy I lived with last year, we both went to college together. It all happened when I realised I liked him, and I knew I wanted something to happen, and it did. We kept our 'relationship' a...