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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - What do you think i should do? We have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex. Should we be getting married?...

DO you think I should just wait it out, perhaps I still have a chance with him? Or should I just forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I really like this guy, and when he found out he said he liked me too. Thing is he kept me hanging for ages, and I had no clue where I stood with him. Turns out he also liked one of my best friends, and she happened to like him back. Nothing ...

Is it possible that he really is going to leave her for me...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am involved with a married man who claims he is leaving his wife. He has told other people this as well (friends, family). We spend a good bit of time together (3-4 nights a week) and talk on the phone a lot. This was only supposed to be about ...

He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has ...

I've been thinking of moving in to my own flat and leaving my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am very fond of my boyfriend and care for him a lot. We have been living together 3 yrs and my feelings for him have always been the same. I have been on my own for most of my adult life and am ok being single. I am a loner and enjoy my own ...

He keeps making excuses that he can't see me. Does he really like me or is it all an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am going out with this boy who I really like !! But Sometimes I get the impression he doesnt like me that much :( because he uses a lot of excuses that he cant come and see me, like for example he sent a text saying " Ive been feeling really i...

I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all sorts which is making me miserable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - basically me and this guy were friends then i went to another frends house who happens to be his brother and we started pleasuring each other and we were gonna have sex but I bottled it. I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all ...

Am I totally stupid thinking there is hope for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - My partner recently had a bit of a fling - (about 6 months ago) but wont talk about it except it is over and he wants to be with me. He has been and is working away alot and I have been feeling insecure. I have rung his cell phone quite alot...

I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work. Me and my cousin started work at the same place, and on our first day there was this guy there who was really nice to me. We got on really well and I really liked him and it ...

She said she had made up her mind, that she doesn’t want a boyfriend and feels I should meet somebody else and get on with my life!

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11 May 2007 (M) - Please help I need some advice. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 7 months, we get on well and everything seemed to be going along fine. Then last week she told me she felt we should stop seeing each other. Her reason was that she had a lot of ...

What is REAL love???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - how do i know if he loves me?...

How can I stop falling for my ex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - i think im falling for my ex again, she used me last time and im afraid the same thing might happen if anything would happen, and i know i wouldnt be able to stop myself, and i can see something happening...any advice on what i could do to make sure ...

I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had ...

I love him but sometimes he speaks to me like crap and he can be really inpatient with my kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I love him but sometimes he speaks to me like crap and he can be really inpatient with my kids. i have 3 kids two teens one 4 im 36 hes 28 we have been together almost 9 months and he lives with me.He has got drunk in the past and gets really moody. ...

My ex bf is always logged onto messenger...is waiting for me to chat to him or is talking to other girls?

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11 May 2007 (F) - me n my bf were used to chatting on yahoo msger. he would log on for me and me too. now we've broken up but I dont know, I cant get over him. he too on the either side had some family issues and so broke up, not willingly either. but I still see him ...

We just broke up and I wish I could stop thinking about it all the time! Any advice on how to stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - Well, I'm on a bit of a downer. I've blown a relationship with a girl that I loved probably more than any other. She had qualities I've never seen in another woman which where so similar to myself. We had so much in common, liked the same things. J...

Just found he cheated when we were dating.. but do cheaters change after marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - My husband cheated on me (more than once) while dating me 2 1/2 yrs. I married him not knowing he had cheated during that time. Do you believe cheaters really can change and only cheat during dating but not cheat after marrying the person?...

I find it uncomfortable to make any first sexual moves toward my gf...how do I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - Hello, I am 24 yrs old virgin guy. Am sort of confused on sexual matters between me and my girl. I find it uncomfortable to make any sexual moves towards my girl, simply because i have been compelled to be suppressive of all such desires ...

I thought I loved him. I'm not physically attracted to him What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months now and i really thought i loved him. However im not so sure. I knw it seems shallow but im not really physically attracted to him. I have been wondering if i can do better. My mum is always saying my...

In my culture, a woman must surrender to her man's libido when married. This is not my view-but can a woman's desire for a man mean fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - I am born in asian culture and sex is a highly debatable issue when it comes to male-female relationships here. Typically, a woman is not supposed to have any desires of her own and have to surrender to her man's libido when married. She is to be ...

My gf is so spoiled by her Mom--will she ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is very spoilt, i've only just come to realise. She gets 'everything' done for her by her mother, such as breakfast in bed every morning and college work on occasion. She also gets a ton of gifts and stuff from her mum and her room ...

He's married and I like him alot! I am down because I know we'll never date...what should I do about my feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I have very strong feelings for a married man(38) with 3 children. I think about him all day, everyday. I work with him through a charity organisation so am in touch with him now and again and am always trying to think of reasons to contact him. I ...

I can't help but feel she would compare me to other partners. Does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - Im having trouble when im not with my girlfriend I worry about every little thing, for example the other day we were shopping and a guy she only says hi to on the odd occasion came running up to her from across the shop (it was a big store) just to ...

She told everyone else I liked this guy...and I'm afraid I'll get teased! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - My friend and I both like a guy, everyone knows she likes him but no-one else apart from her knows that I do, but we were cool with it until she told all my friends that I liked him when I wasn't there. Now I'm scared he's going to find out, and the ...

I'm married to her but she has become moody and she's hard to love. I met someone else and I want more-what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - I've been married 9 months to someone who used to be lovely, but over recent months has become easily annoyed and moody, and very hard to love. just recently I met a girl who I get on really well with and we connected, but altho were good friends we ...

Am I right to feel insulted he called me weird when I said I'd sleep with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - ok today i was texting a guy who i work with in my part time job and he said something about feeling ugly and i said he shouldnt because hes really popular at work. He then asked me what i meant so i text him back saying there are quite a few girls ...

Is he pulling back because he's not interested or because of ex-wife issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I'm 38 and been dating a single dad now for just under 3 months. We've had a passionate dating relationship for the first 2 months and we are have so much in common. He verbally treats with with the utmost respect and is very considerate whe...

Is this really love, or is it just our hormones ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - Real love or hormones? I am 18 and have been dating my GF for 5 months now, and I want to know if our feelings for each other are real, or just some teenage hormones. We have have a great adult relationship full of deep conversation, fe...

He cheated on me, but we share a uni flat, I still fancy him, but know hes bad, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex 4 months ago after he cheated on me. Unfortunately we live together in university halls at the moment so it's taken me absolutely ages to get over him considering we were only together for 3 months. I forgave him at the time ...

Im pregnant, I slept with the father once, how do I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6411 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am 22 years old and just found out I am pregnant. The father is a recent college graduate. He and I slept together once after unfortunetly letting alcohol impair our judgement. we have hung out a couple times since and we have kissed a couple ...

Is she hinting that she likes me, or just being friendly ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - Hey Guys, Well this is jus a general queation I think, I'm friends with a girl called R, she is everything I want in a girl and were both single, we connect on every level just perfectly, we have loads in common, text each other day talk...