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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My confidence is really low and I'm a size 18 (UK), do guys really want a girl this size?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I like this guy alot but my confidence is really low, I'm a size 18(uk) and im quite tall so its kinda spread out but do guys really want this especially when they're like 18? any thoughts? ...

I just found out last night my BF is racist! What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is racist. He don't think he is just cuz he got black cuzins. He has a problom with some blacks he went out with a black before and he wasn't racist then but now he is. He fights alot and the people he fights with are black people!....

My parents don't like my BF coz he does drugs! How can I make them see he's a great guy and makes me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a while. My parents don't like him cos he does drugs, which i don't do. Is there anyway that i can make them see that i like him for the laughs and the good times we have together? I feel that we are going to...

I'm not over my ex of 2 years ago and I keep comparing my new BFs to him! How do I stop this once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - i broke up with this guy a few years ago and he was my 1st proper bf. I still always think about him and the gr8 times we had together. Since then i'v never felt the same way about anyone even though i have had other bf's. it's really tough be...

Should I wait around for him until he's ready to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I am really confused and I would really appreciate your help. I have been at university for my first year now and I met a guy within the first few weeks. We were just mates at first and we hung out in a large group of girls and lads. He also...

What do I get my GF for our 2 month anniversary?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - hey there .. its my 2 month aniversary on saturday and i was wondering what i should get my gf .. any ideas would be greatly appricciated .. thank you :) all the best...

Does this guy really have an interest in me since on our only day off he didn't want to hang out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hello cupid I met a person 5 weeks ago, in the third week we had our first date.We mantain in contact on phone twice or 3 times a day for short period due to the type of job we both have since then. We have both a job that has not allowed us t...

Am I just taking the brunt of external issues or does he really not want to be with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice from some of the readers of dear cupid. I have been answering problems on here a while now and have got some really good ratings - the only problem is, im useless at sorting out my own problems! I've been seeing this...

My BF is so vain and spends too much time looking at himself in the mirror!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Dear cupid How do you deal with a boyfriend who you feel very self conscious about his look. He doesn't like to eat anything fat, always keep things very healthy and working out. I have no problem with that, except whenever we have to go out, ...

Should I tell him that I like him. It would be incredibly awkward if he doesn't feel the same! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...

I wanted to believe her that she was my perfect girl. Am I wrong to be stressed about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - Ah well, here goes, lots to tell... I met a wonderful girl 2 and a half years ago, she was beautiful and sexy, and was interested in me, however, the months before we actualy got together people were telling me to stay away, and suggesting some ...

How can I tell my Mom,that he's 24?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - hi, im a 16 yr old who is dating a 24 year old and my parents dont know because my mom will throw hom in jail, but i was wondering how i could tell my mom....

I have this 'saviour complex'-I try to help her all the time but it got to me! Did I do the right thing by saying, I can't be her friend anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I will start with a little information about myself. I seem to have this "savior complex" due to which I seem to be automatically attracted to people who need my help. Also, I feel guilty..ALOT. About three years ago I met this amazing female ...

I've never met his family or many of his friends, do you think he's embarrassed by me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship now for 7 months with my boyfriend. We usually see each other 3 times a week, but lately I've noticed things that are niggling away at me. Firstly in the seven months that we've been together I've only met one of his ...

Why don't guys like tall girls?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?...

Do you think we'll ever be one happy, united family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I have 2 daughters(11 and 14) and have been separated 28 months. 3 months ago i met a guy and we started a relationship. He's divorced with 2 boys(13 and 16) I seem to be attracted to dominant, controlling men and "D" is no exception. However ...

He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...

Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?...

I found pictures of someone on his phone, thing is I'm 4 months pregnant and don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and im 4 months pregnant. he already has another child who's 5. Lately he has been secretive with his mobile and panics anytime i go near it. when he was sleeping one night i went into his texts and seen that ...

Do you think I should get married to him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - hi i been with this man for 9 years, i use to live with him and his four kids they was bad and he got the other one with an other women i was all the time mad and i try to live by my self an other apartement. i lived there for 6 years but i keep him ...

I spoiled my son's party which I regret, now I feel as if I can't live without them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - i met lucy 12 years ago just after I split from my first wife she helped me through a messy divorce. We have had a steady relationship, just the odd argument here and there. Until now we have got 2 kids one boy who's 8 one girl who's 1 and a half. ...

My friends told me he really liked me, so why did he go and get himself another girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - i started good mates with this lad about 3 years ago and i really liked him but he was giving me mixed signals, we drifted apart but now he's back and tried it on with me a couple of weeks back an ive started feeling back how i used 2, im best mates ...

I have feelings for 2 guys... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Well I have a problm. I'm friends with a guy, we'll call him J, and J is perfect amd amazing and deeply in love with me though we are currently not dating. I think this could really turn into something, but there's this other guy, C, whom I'm really ...

Will he mind that I'm actually not as toned as he thinks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - ok im 20 and last when i was out in a club, i met a really nice guy who asked for my number and said he would call me this week to take me out. Problem is ... i was wearing stomach-holding-in pants so i looked really toned. im scared to meet him now ...

I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and ...

I can't find any good singles to date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I never seem to find a single guy to date because in the past the only guys that fancy me are divorced, engaged, married or in some sort of relationship. And they are all older than me a fair bit. I have no clue why this is. I don't want to be with ...

my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Basically, my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be. It is more important to me that we see each other frequently than it is to him. He agrees. Is this the typical male and ...

My ex treated me like dirt, how will I ever trust a man again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I want to enter the dating scene again, but I don't know how I will ever trust a man again after my ex dumped me nearly 5 months ago. I was utterly shell-shocked as we had built up a strong friendship over quite some time and he had been the one ...

What if he is seeing somebody else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi there I am in a fairly new relationship, its been two months now. I am happy a bit, because I feel like I cannot ask more from a r/ship at this stage. My current boyfriend is a very busy person. He is forever at work or outside the city, because ...

If I tell my partner it's over, he'll smash the house up as he's very manipulating and controlling. I don't know what to do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi i am 19 i have been in this relationship for 3.5 years. I have a little girl who is 2. Kevin is very manipulating and controling. He gets angry and shouts at me right in my face calls me names says he wishes i was dead. I want to end it so i can ...

I have feelings for her but she only seems to want my friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

She's leaving to do volunteer work and I'm devasted about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a problem at the moment that I'm not sure now to handle. I've been with my GF for several months now, and I think the world of her. We hit it off straight away, and things have been going as well as I could have wished for in the ...

Can anyone tell me exactly what she means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - i round about asked this girl out. and she said she would get back to me about it as soon as she could. can someone shine some light on what she means? all she said was "i'll get back to you about wensday". because thats when i offered to buy he...

What is the part of a man or a woman in starting a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Should it be the man or the woman making the first step? What is the part of a man or a woman in starting a relationship? What is their part in continueing the relationship? And what if it comes to an engagement/wedding? And so on? What is your ...

I really like this girl but I am confused as to how she feels about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - i really like this girl i am 23 she is 21. i don't know how she feels about me. when we talk there seems to be nervous silence. also she says something then a couple of days later she says i imagined it. but i still want to admit my feelings for her ...

OMG... we didn't use a condom, could I be pregnant!!!???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i had sex today and when finished he went to clean up and throw the condom away and he came back and we just laid together in the bed. after a few minutes we started making out and one thing led to another and his penis was inside ...

I have a cousin who is 17 and hotttttt!!! I want to have sex with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - hi, i have a cousin she is 17 and hott. i want to have sex with her. when i was 8 we kinda just rubbed and felt each other. I jack off to pictures of her. what do i do? please....

Should I be with a girl who lies all the time or drown in this feeling of loniness...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend in October as I felt I wasn't being treated right. She only wanted to see me when it suited her and was too flirty with others. We meet now and again as we have been close all our lives. After I spend time with her ...

I cant seem to have an orgasm with my boyfriend at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I am 18 years old. I cant seem to have an orgasm with my boyfriend at all. I can have a orgasm by my self but not with my boyfriend. Hes the type of guy that doesn't like using vibrators and stuff like that. He only want to use his mouth or fingers ...

My parents have told me if I go back with her they will disown me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend broke up a month a go i am 19 and she is 20 i told my parents about the break up and they said i could do better well 2 weeks later and my girl got back i tried to tell my parents but they said that if i go back to her they will ...

My boyfriend is away on a trip for 3 months and I want to have cybersex with him but how do I instigate this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been away on a trip for three months. He won't be back for another month and a half. We have been emailing and talking on the phone when we can. I have never had cybersex or phone sex, but I really miss him and I want to. I don't ...

I really fancy my cousin's mate. How can I win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - My cousin's mate and I talk a lot on MSN but we have never met. We both admit to fancying each other. If I were to go to the cinema's with them both and I sat by my cousin's mate, how could I eventually kiss him? The thing is; if my cousin and his ...

Do guys just assume that you're dating even if you don't have the actual talk? I'm confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I feel kind of stupid asking this question but here goes... I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time, and recently something happened between us. He admitted he had feelings for me, we kissed, and he told me that he'd been in lov...

Do you think anything more will come out of this friendship I have with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Basically I have fallen for a guy and well he says he likes me an we've spent time together, call and text each other every day without fail etc Anyway to the point, whenever i bring up the subject of us actually getting together properly he just ...