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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I take the initiative and call, or should I wait for him to call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just a little over three years. Since the beginning of this year we have been getting into little spats and arguments, mainly about his behavior towards me. I try and talk to him about why he says hurtful ...

I find myself resenting him for being so perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Am I just not cut out to be with a "good guy". I'm in a relationship all the girls in the magazines say they want. He's clean cut, financially stable, knows all the right people, takes me to all the right places etc. But, I'm bored. I even find ...

I'm just really confused, we were always going to stay as friends but we were just going to have benefits and experiment.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Okay I'm a girl and I think I'm bi. One of my best friends was asking me about it and we wanted to try being physical with each other to see if we liked it. She was off and on, she would want to but then she wouldn't, and she said she only had those ...

Her mum flipped because i did not walk her home.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - I'm a 14 year old lad, that is madly in love with a 14 year old girl and has been for months, we where happy until one day i didnt walk her home, recently i got on well with the family, but her mum just flipped down the phone to my parents, saying i ...

I hate sex at the moment, whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was chatting to some girls on AOL chat, what about or wether it got sexual,lets face it,i will never know. However he went on a couple of seedier sites ect and i had to have a look. And i feel like a weirdo. Not only has...

She say's she loves me but i don't think i feel the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - I Guess i have been running away from this Question but here goes i met a girl on the web about a month ago and we have talked about EVERYTHING and she told me shes in love with me but im not sure i love her but i dont know if im in love with with ...

I'm finding it hard to cope with being away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - please help, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 17 months, i love her so much, but i find it so hard to cope when i am not with her, she lives in the uk and i am in germany with the british army, i was beggining to deal with with it, however ...

Me and my ex have split up. We want to get back together and currently are just seeing each other but there are lads that are wanting to start seeing her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Hi me and my ex have split up. We want to get back together and currently are just seeing each other and there are lads that are wanting to start seeing her. I feel like it's going to be hard to defend but will do anything to defend her from other ...

For me there is no way I would do this as I think its rather disgusting and I see my anus as a one way system. Am I being silly for not letting my boyfriend try this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we are completely in love. We have been sexually active for about 9 months and we have done everything apart from anal sex. My boyfriend makes little jokes about doing it all the time and when I come ...

My partner of five years has just discovered that he has an 18 year old daughter from a one night stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Hi, Please help me if you can, my partner of five years has just discovered that he has an 18 year old daughter from a one night stand! He did go out with the woman for three years at school previous to him marrying another woman who obviously he ...

He's been cheating on me. Do you think trust can be re-built and relationships survive this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Hello. I found out 6 weeks ago that my boyfriend of nearly 8 years has been sleeping with a girl he met through work. We moved in together last summer. He says he met her last January 06 but they just spoke and he only slept with her bewteen January ...

He already said he loves me after like 3 days of talking. But that's so overused nowadays I don't know if it's really real.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I've always wanted a summer fling, and I think it's become more than that to the guy I started seeing. I met a guy on a 2 day trip last month and he is great. He's funny, intelligent, able to hold a conversation. And we are both going to be seni...

She's 15 and I'm 13 ... What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - ok... ive bin lukin for this girl for 4 months after a weddin which looked fantastic at. i finally meet her online and realise she is almost 2 yr older than me. what should i do? i mean how long should i wait, should i check she has a boifriend ...

My girlfriend always shaves down there when she goes on a night out with friends. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Ok this is quite a personal thing really but I need some advice/opinions. My better half and the mother of my child goes out on the town fairly regularly once a week to every other week. She always shaves herself down there before going on the town ...

What's she playing at? Am I ready to be dumped by her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - I have a problem here goes; My current girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for four months but have known each other for around 6 months...this is her longest relationship, she is 18 I am 21 and have been in a long relationship bef...

Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them? Please Please Help Meeee xx...

More than just a crush on a tutor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - More than just a crush on a tutor I have had feelings for one of my tutors (in his early thirties) at my university all year. As he had recently resigned for another job in a different city I decided to ask him out to dinner before he leaves...

Commitment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - commitment is not a major life-threatening thing that someone does. People who can't make the smallest decisions are inevitably going to find it hard to make a major decision. The way I see it is that People who are afraid of commitment (to a ...

Dated my cousin and now Dad has found out and will be talking to me! What do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Hey guys... I had a wonderful relationship with my 1st cousin.. Then after 3 weeks we broke up because we knew people already knew that we we're together... She has been played around by this guy... When my uncles found out they got really pissed...

She contacted me to ask if I was ok if she slept in the same bed as her male friend. I said NO and she got mad! Was I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. I'd like to share a little story with you of something that may of been the final nail in the coffin of my serious, long distance relationship of 2 years and 13 separate meetings. Some of you may remember that my ex was booked to go...

Four weeks before wedding he called it off,,he met someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Had been in a relationship for 5 years and was due to get married this year. 4 weeks before wedding he called it off. It's been 2 1/2 months since it happened and he announced last week someone asked him out. He is going out with her today. We still ...

He likes to drink too much, and it hurt our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I'd split up with my boyfriend when he was at uni cos all he was interested in doing was getting drunk and treating me 2nd best. We got back 10 months ago after he finished uni and he said he'd changed but after 3/4 months of being good i find he ...

We are getting close to our first kiss! Please help-I need tips on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Its come to the time when me and my boyfriend have our first kiss.The only problem is that ive never kissed before and im worried it will be awful. But the one thing im scarred about is that i dont know where to put my hands on him when we kiss...

I want to date this girl but still afraid to get hurt, due to a past bad dating experience!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Soooo here it goes i guess... I'm 16, I've had 1 girlfriend in my entire life and she cheated on me about 4 times while we were going out (3 in 1 day)(she had sex with 3 guys she didn't even know). I was 15 at the time and so was she. Our ...

Do I tell my fiancee that I slept with another man, a long time ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 7 years(since 8th grade) but we've broken up a couple times since we got out of highschool. We were each others first, we live together now and we're getting married this October. But I slept with someone ...

He said no to dating me..and went back to his ex gf! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - This a little complicated, but I'll try to explain. This boy and i would txt all the time and we hit it off really well. One night we made out and i asked him about a relationship and he said he didnt want to hurt me because he was leaving to go ...

My girfriend is travelling away from me and keeps telling me about men hitting on her; what's her purpose with that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is out of my state for 6 weeks and will be traveling heavily for a year or more. Only one week into this new job and she is going to bars most nights and telling me about all of the men hiting on her. What is she trying to ...

I lost my boyfriends trust by doing some pretty stupid thing-how do I gain back his trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I lost my boyfriends trust by doing some pretty stupid things. When we were going out fore about 7 months I contacted 2 people I really felt something for at one time and I couldn't even tell him why. Truth is I didn't know myself. But now I know ...

She dating someone else, and I have very strong feelings for her! What's a guy to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Hey, I have this friend who I'm really close with. A year ago we dated for about a month and became close friends after we split up. We are very good friends to the point where we can talk about pretty much anything to each other comfortably. About ...

How do I help my friend understand..that she needs to dump the awful bf!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Ok, this will be long but its important. so my best friend started dating a guy about 4 months ago and everything was fine until about 3 days ago. my friends boyfriend just got back in town and ever since he got back, hes really changed he barely ...

I plan on talking to my ex-boyfriend to let him know I am still in love with him. Any good tips on startng this conversation with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I am planning on talking to my ex-boyfriend to let him know I am still in love with him. We have been apart for almost 4 months now and have stayed in touch through e-mail, phone and weekly visits (I even went away to his cottage with him and his ...

I've never had a girlfriend, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - I'm eighteen years old, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not too bad looking and I'm very intelligent. Should I be concerned?...

He wants to have a threesome... but i don't. Should i reconsider this in the future or have I done the right thing by saying no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - He wants to have a 3some... but i don't. Me and my boyfriend have being going out only a little while now and we are pretty active but haven'y had sex yet as i am 15. We are both waiting until my birthday in april. I trust my guy with my life as ...

He chased me for 3 months, now he's backed off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - How to respond to a text saying I cant have a relationship I am damned by the devil. 3months and he chased me. I just want to know what happened...

He's my best friend's guy, they have 2 kids, I live with them but...I am falling for him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm falling in love with my roomate and it's my best friends boyfriend. They have 2 kids together and have been together for 4 1/2 years. For the most part they get along, but they struggle like everyone else. It just seems so natural when I'm ...

I love him to death but there are times when he just makes me feel worthless. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and my boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. i love him to death but there are times when he just makes me feel worthless. I was always taught not to settle but I am afraid I may be because I don't have great self ...

I'm a 13 year old male and I love 4 females! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (M) - Right, im in a confusing situation at the moment. I lik 4 girls.1 is my ex, 1 is an old classmate, 1 is my mums friends daughter and 1 is my foster sister. I am 13, foster sister is 19, ex is 15, classmate is 13 and mums friends daughter is 14. i ...

My ex bullied me, cheated on me so bad and has now, convinced me, I am in the wrong! How do I get this out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - this may sound a stupid question but - my ex partner had bullied and harrassed me to leave our joint home and now he has recently bought me out of the property. He has been married twice before and cheated on each of them, and he has done the sam...

Why am I thinking that my bf is cheating on me, when I know he hasn't?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

4 August 2007 (F) - I have been thinking a lot lately about my boyfriend cheating on me, although he hasn't. I don't know why, if it's from reading the ?'s on this site all the time, and I just found out that my friend's boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend ...