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writes:Ok this is quite a personal thing really but I need some advice/opinions. My better half and the mother of my child goes out on the town fairly regularly once a week to every other week. She always shaves herself down there before going on the town (we are having sexual problems between us at the moment and there is no sex between us). I ask her why she shaves down there before going out, and she says it's a confidence thing - I know she is not cheating at the moment but should I be worried that she is looking ??Please save my sanity.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (5 August 2007):
 I shave mine into, what we girls call it into a brazillian
style for hygiene purposes. I don't think there is anything to worry about, I mean you would'nt want your partner to have a Sherwood Forest growth down there would you? I don't mean to sound crude.Being a mother is a 24/7 job too she needs to get out with her pals once in a while.
Do you guys actually go out as a couple, a girl needs wooing now and then. So get yourself a babysitter and take her out for a meal occasionally,in my opinion when a relationship starts to get stale, you need to have a bit of quality time together. Having children can take its toll on couples, especially if you are missing that intimate contact. Sit down and have a calm 121 chat with her,explain that you don't want to lose her and you will do anything to get back on track in every aspect of your relationship. Put your child into bed early,cook her a lovely meal she I'm sure will appreciate that. The point I am trying to make here my love is that when a woman becomes a mother she can start to lose her identity,as a person, she also needs to have time with her friends now and then too, so do you. You need to give each other space if you want your relationship to work, cos take it from me if you guy's lives revolve around each other 24/7, that when things start to go pear shaped. But you need to communicate with each other and see why your love life has become non existent, allow yourselves to open up, listen and compromise with each others needs. For god sake get that romance back into your life, don't take one another for granted, she probably feels that at the moment, so thats why it has got to this stage, it won't be easy, try and slowly build up what you have lost. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 It's hard to tell with the information you give. I would look into the lack of sex at the moment: Why is it happening? Whatever the problem between you two, that is the first thing to tackle.
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reader, accused  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Confidence for what? who's going to see it? Does she know a super hero with x-ray vison? I can't say for sure if she is cheating, maybe its what she says it is... Just a little far fetched. My advice is to just keep close tabs on what she tells you, changing stories, and etc.. Trust me if she's cheating you will eventually find out... Best of luck
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