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anonymous
writes:This a little complicated, but I'll try to explain. This boy and i would txt all the time and we hit it off really well. One night we made out and i asked him about a relationship and he said he didnt want to hurt me because he was leaving to go back to his home town in a few months. So we kinda were off and on with talking to eachother and then we started again about a week ago. We had a heavy make out session and he fingered me. The next day i left for a camping trip for a few days and didnt have service so i couldnt talk to him. When i finally did, i found out he got back together with his ex...a girl he started dating when he and i were off and on when we talked to eachother. I was asking him about it and we kinda got into a fight about it because i was pissed that he told me no to a relationship and then he turned around and went back to one! What do i do? I still like him, but i dont know if i should keep talking to him, i promised my friend that i wouldnt talk to him for two months...but i want to. I want to know why he did that to me. What should i do?!
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reader, advice 247  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 well if i was you i would ask why he did that and did he really like me or was it a game, that is the only thing you ask him to get it off your mind and just walk off get on with your life and meeet somone else im sure they wont do that but meet somone in your home town not who will be coming back and forth from another place or state!. it seems that he might of got into a fight with his gril friend and was on the rebound and you was unfortuantly there and he knew you liked him. you should of wondered why when he said he didnt want a relationship with you.
good luck! ps go and meet a new boy and maje him jealose
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 To me, he was lying when he said he didn't want to hurt you by having a relationship. It could be possible to argue that he doesn't care about hurting his ex, but I doubt it. Most likely he wanted to make out with you, et cetera, but he didn't want a relationship. If this is the case, I'm afraid he was using you, and he couldn't care less about you.
So I think you should not talk to him. Not for two months, but, never again.
This was not your fault. He is missing out.
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