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writes:I Guess i have been running away from this Question but here goes i met a girl on the web about a month ago and we have talked about EVERYTHING and she told me shes in love with me but im not sure i love her but i dont know if im in love with with her and she lives about a 23 hour drive from me i just dont know (we chat on msn with cams untill 2-3 o clock at night) what should i do
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reader, bek01  +, writes (7 August 2007):
i think that maybe you should stop talking to her for a bit and see how you feel then , is it going to be possible to have a relasionship with her if you live so far away from her , it is so easy to get carried away with a relationship on the net but you do have to think about it realistically she has obviously fallen for you and you are not sure how you feel so my advice is to take a break and tell her your reasons for doing this i really think she would appreciate the honesty from you as it is never good to leave someone wondering what happened .
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): Thanks for all your answers id still like some more answers and i ment to say i do like her but im not shure about love Thanks Again
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reader, penta  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 She may just be more comfortable with the word. If I were in your shoes, I'd want to wait to use it too.
If you think the potential is there, respond to her that you want to wait to talk about love until the two of you know each other better. That you're not ruling it out, but right now you just don't know. You'd like to keep exploring the relationship to see where it goes, and maybe you'll be using the word later. But when you finally do use it, you'll mean it. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): "Love" is such a strong word to use, and many people get intimidated by it. She might just really really like you, and if you do feel the same way about her, trust me, you'll know. If you don't, then tell her she's a great person and all but you really just like her as a friend. It may seem hard, but if you tell her you "love" her back when you really don't you'll just end up hurting her.
Now if the real reason you don't wanna tell her you like her back is because you don't wanna have a long distance relationship then i know exactly what you mean.
My boyfriend moved far away from where i live about a year ago but we're still together and now have a long distance relationship, which is going pretty well, and that might happen with you if you really do like her.
Oh yeah and one more thing, for a guy to talk to a girl on msn till 3 am, well, that must mean he really likes her, after all, have you ever seen that happen with a guy and girl who were just friends? lol but what do i know!=P
Okay i'm gonna shut up now =P, i hope this helps. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): Okay, as a girl myself :D I know how this girl feels. And you need to respect your feelings. But if you don't feel totally the same, that isn't your fault! If you are ever gonna tell her that you don't really feel the same, let her down as gently as you can. I can't say if she really loves you or not, but it might just be 'teenage emotions.' xx
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