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writes:I'm a 14 year old lad, that is madly in love with a 14 year old girl and has been for months, we where happy until one day i didnt walk her home, recently i got on well with the family, but her mum just flipped down the phone to my parents, saying i need to change etc. i tried going round and speaking to her but all me and my parents got is abuse and the police phoned-but they just laughed? it has been a couple of months now, but my ex gf is to scared to srtand up 2 her mum, but she says she will try, but in the mean time, im left hanging on-What do i do??? HELP
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reader, syndrome92 +, writes (5 August 2007):
syndrome92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have backed of for months, the situation hasnt got any better, the only reason i didnt walk her home ( and i have never before let her do so) would be because i had to be in aswell, and if i did walk her, i would be late, but it was only couple of hundred yards away. i tried speaking, apologising, grovelling- nothing has worked. any help?
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reader, syndrome92 +, writes (5 August 2007):
syndrome92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have backed of for months, the situation hasnt got any better, the only reason i didnt walk her home ( and i have never before let her do so) would be because i had to be in aswell, and if i did walk her, i would be late, but it was only couple of hundred yards away. i tried speaking, apologising, grovelling- nothing has worked. any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): I do think it is good manners to always make sure your gf is walked safely home, dear. Perhaps her Mom has values about how she wishes her daughter to be treated. But if what you are telling us is what you deem the reason for this Mom's anger at you..I do feel she couldn't have handled this issue with more understanding and patience.
Are you sure there is nothing else besides this issue that would cause this Mom to be so upset with you? It sounds like there is more to this story. If not, then Mom did over-react. If there indeed is more, your gf knows the reason. Why don't you ask her.
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reader, outandrproud +, writes (5 August 2007):
the mother is probably going through a stressful time and she just needed to vent her anger out at someone. you. just go to their house and try to talk to the mother and aks her why she got angry at this little thig. maybe it was for something bigger that you didnt realise. just talk to her and find common ground. it might be hard but still its a start.
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reader, Emilie +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hey, im sorry to hear you have been caught up in this. Her mom may be going through something thats not even connected to this, therefore taking it out on you and your family. im sorry to say that all you can do is wait and back off abit until her mum has calmed down and the one you love has had a chat to her mum, you cant really do much more. Good luck for the future, best wishes xxx
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