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41-50,
*telli916
writes: Hi, I'm falling in love with my roomate and it's my best friends boyfriend. They have 2 kids together and have been together for 4 1/2 years. For the most part they get along, but they struggle like everyone else. It just seems so natural when I'm around him. He persued my first for quite some time, and I finally gave in. I feel horrible because it's my best friends man, but at the same time, I ALWAYS want to be around him. It's not just physical, I'm emotionally attatched to him, he tells me the same thing. I don't know what to do. I'm completely lost.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (4 August 2007):
I'm sorry to say it but you should have stayed away from him in the first place. I'm not saying it's all your fault as he is the one in a relationship and he gave in to something he shouldn't have also. I think you should make a clean break and tell him that you don't want to see him anymore. I know this will hurt but believe me it will be the best thing in the long run. You can't call yourself a best friend if you are sleeping with her man can you? I think you should move on and find someone else, think of his children!
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