A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay I'm a girl and I think I'm bi. One of my best friends was asking me about it and we wanted to try being physical with each other to see if we liked it. She was off and on, she would want to but then she wouldn't, and she said she only had those feelings when she was horny. Well one day we decided to become physical but when everything was planned like where and when she said she didn't think she could ever do it because she would feel like she was cheating on her boyfriend! I'm just really confused, we were always going to stay as friends but we were just going to have benefits and experiment. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): She has obviously decided that her loyalty remains with her boyfriend and has made that very clear to you. There is nothing you can do to change the situation unless she finishes with her boyfriend in the future. Sadly you are just going to have to find someone else who is a free agent.
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