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I'm a 13 year old male and I love 4 females! What should I do?

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Question - (4 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right, im in a confusing situation at the moment. I lik 4 girls.1 is my ex, 1 is an old classmate, 1 is my mums friends daughter and 1 is my foster sister. I am 13, foster sister is 19, ex is 15, classmate is 13 and mums friends daughter is 14. i luv them all so much and constantly think about all of them. i would ask my old classmate, but she is my cousins ex, it might annoy him. askt out my ex, seems desperate, she ended cos of the age gap anyway. my foster sister is too old, and she almost definitely sees me as a brother. so then theres my mums friends daughter, but according to her mum, she likes me as a friend. this wouldnt annoy me too much, but i went through puberty early and i need a girlfriend, what should i do.

p.s the only way to get in contact with my classmate is by aking my cousin for her number, also i go to an all boys school, and have no thoughts of being gay.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

First of all, oh my gosh! Okay, trust me you don't love these girls. You're only thirteen, so am I, and at this age we haven't had enough experience of love and relationships and things to really know what love is! Trust me. I thought I was in love, but I wasn't and I know that now. So foster sister: 19 and she thinks of you as a sister! So not her. You need to work out which one of the other three girls you like the most. If its the classmate, talk to your cousin about it and see how he feels, if he doesn't like it, consider the other two! I'm sure you'll make the right decision! xx

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntYou don't love 4 females!

You may be attracted to them but you can't truly love all of them.

All I can suggest to you is you think about which one you like the most and ask her out although I wouldn't ask your foster sister out as yes she is a little too old for you, and she's like your sister.

You also don't NEED a girlfriend. You wont die without one, although you do think that as a teen. Take some time to hang with the girls and see which one you see yourself having a relationship with.

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