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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for just a little over three years. Since the beginning of this year we have been getting into little spats and arguments, mainly about his behavior towards me. I try and talk to him about why he says hurtful things to me or why acts the why he does but he just gets angry and won't continue the conversation. The last arguments we had was on Monday and during this fight he told me not to call him until Tuesday of this week coming up! His excuse was that he has a lot on his plate and that he needs time to concentrate. Since Monday he has not contacted me and I have not contacted him. I feel as if the longer I let this go on the harder it will be on our relationship. Should I take the initiative and call, or should I wait for him to call?
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reader, g man  +, writes (28 August 2007):
I would call,but you need to know where you stand with him. It sounds funny that he wants time away. it must be questioned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): Call him just the once to put yourself out of your misery. If he doesn't answer or return your call then you must leave it up to him to contact you. If in two weeks he still hasn't got in touch then I think it would be time to assess whether your relationship is in fact over.
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reader, AndreC.  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 I say you dnt call him if you do you will seem desperate and also he will see you as weak and take advantage of you and also if he really loves you he will call you.I say dnt call him let him call you because if he loves u like i said he will call you!hope i helped need anything msg me Andrew
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