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writes:ok... ive bin lukin for this girl for 4 months after a weddin which looked fantastic at. i finally meet her online and realise she is almost 2 yr older than me. what should i do? i mean how long should i wait, should i check she has a boifriend first and how should i ask her withoutmakin it obvious i fancy her or lukin nosey...do you think it will work if she is 15 and i am nearly 14? Reply to this Question
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reader, sillzsarah +, writes (6 August 2007):
 heya :-)my first opinion for you would be to get to no her first try to find out a bit more about her become her mate :-)once uve done that you can try asking her out the only way ur guna be able to find out if she likes u to is by asking her... if she says yes then uv got urself a gf but just remember hun the legal age for a couple having sexual intercorce is 16 so wait till ur a little bit older :-Dhope i helped hun remember play safe and wise :-) xx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Why not get to know her as a friend first. Have a laugh with her online, maybe offline. I would be careful telling her about how you feel. She may feel the same but she may also think that at 13 you are a little immature for her.
It could work if she likes you aswell. I would ask her if she's single or not. Use the excuse that you just want to know things about her.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hey sweetie i am nearly 15. Become her friend, i know it maybe hard to keep how you feel about her inside but just see what she is looking for. Let her open up to you.Speak to her as though you care and listen to what she says.Message me for more advice :)I am nearly her age :Px
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reader, Emilie +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hey honey, It doesnt matter what age she is even if she is older. i know from experience having had a younger guy myself. If you get on well it will work out great and you could be in for a great relationship. Get to know her a little better be a good friend and in time if you still feel the same way explain that you have a crush or strong feelings for her. She will respect your honesty and if she feel the same way she will certainly tell you honey. Becoming her friend will also help u find out if she has a guy and if not then you have a good chance of stealing her heart! :) relax! Good luck :) xxx
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