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writes:Soooo here it goes i guess... I'm 16, I've had 1 girlfriend in my entire life and she cheated on me about 4 times while we were going out (3 in 1 day)(she had sex with 3 guys she didn't even know). I was 15 at the time and so was she. Our relationship started about 9 months ago and ended after 3 months. I am over her and I REALLY like one her friends. From what I understand she still has an obsession with me and has tried to hook back up multiple times. That was a horrible experience and I really would like to date again, but for some reason I am still scared I will do something wrong (not spend enough time, say something wrong, or act wrong). From what I have heard she lost her virginity couple weeks ago to some guy. I have no idea what to think. Any suggestions anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): report any bad daters at www.roguedaters.com
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reader, flawedbynature +, writes (5 August 2007):
I was in a very similar situation. I've had a couple of girlfriends, but my first one, who I said I loved (but, being my first, I had never felt intense emotions so I was overreacting), cheated on me with her male best friend. I was very put off to dating after this, and just went for random play, but found that I like a good relationship.My advise, is not to blame this new girl for your old girlfriend's shortcomings. I'm sure that this girl knows that everybody has their good and bad moments, and she'll get around them. Let me make sure to tell you that the first girl's stupidity was not your fault, it was hers, so don't blame it on yourself, and give this girl a chance.
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reader, Aybaybay +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Ok Im 15 years old i was going out with a 18 year old .Before we started to date i lost my virginity to his bestfriend yeah it was weird that i was dating hes friend! i didnt like go place were he would be . I now am single bc my boyfriend broke up with bc i was hes first girlfriend and wanted to have more .. but you need to move on with your life and just think that theres someone out there who will not cheat on you and make you the happiest person in the world so if you like this girl and she likes you then go for it !! GOOD LUCK and by the way dont worry about messing up bc the more you think about it you get scared and you prob. will !!
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