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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was ...

Who am I? I want to be bisexual as I think I like girls more than boys now. Hardly anyone I know is bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I have been out with loads of boys but I kissed a girl and I think I like girls now. I want to be bisexual, but don't know what people would think and well it's harder to get a good relationship because hardly anyone I know is bisexual or gay. W...

Does he feel the same way or did I make him uncomfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi. I'd love to get a third person's opinion I fell hard for an old friend but we live in different cities. He used to flirt back and forth and met a few times. I'm not sure of he had feelings for me. After 3 years and I finally told him everyth...

Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

25 May 2017 (M) - Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up wit...

My crush of 2 years just got a girlfriend! Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - I'm sure this has happened to people a million times before but this is the first time for me. Quite simply, the boy I've had a crush on for two years has just gotten a girlfriend. He likes her very much - he is constantly preoccupied, staring into ...

Should I tell my art teacher of my feelings in case I never see her again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - So I'm a 16 year old girl I'll be 17 in 2 months. And I am in love with my female art teacher. Sadly she is straight and has a boyfriend. I want to tell her how i feel after I graduate just to get it off my chest but I'm afraid that she will never ...

Do I date him or not? My mother says NO to dating him. My friend says Yes, or she'll not be my friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So this guy likes me and i sorta like him back but people tell him not to date him but my best friend says if i dont she wont be my friend and people that said no because they wont let me date him and my mum says i should say no what should i do?...

Despite out 6 year age difference, do you think this relationship could work out well for us ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hello. I'd like to get some advice, as I've never been in a similar situation before. I've met a really good, caring and beautiful girl, and in short, we talked a bit, she told me she liked me since the last year, and later on, we kissed a few ...

She's broken up with her boyfriend, is it too early to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well! I'd like some advice of you could. So I'm a 30/male this girl I need advice about is 25 I believe. She moved in to the apartment next door to me about 6 months ago. I instantly thought she was one of the ...

Is he showing interest in me in a more than a colleague way, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

22 May 2017 (M) - Hi all. I'm a bisexual (for lack of better labels...) man 28 y.o., in a situation that needs your input :) I'm not gonna go in detail about myself, I just wanna state that when a girl fancies me I can tell, however I dont seem to be able to ...

I want to show him the fun me! Do I ask him for a second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - I recently stumbled across an old friend and he admitted he liked me 20 yrs ago as i did him . He thought i wasnt interested in him and he was a bit shy so thought i didnt like him that way but i did i fancied the pants off him. im the first to ...

How do I talk to him while we are both at the gym? I'm shy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - There's a guy at the gym i have my eye on. I had seen him around at the gym many times, but never talked. However, we both ended up doing the Spartan Race back in January. We both recognized each other, and started talking. After that, we started ...

Will I ruin our friendship if I ask him out first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2771 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - A simple one really. A guy I like seems to exhibit all the signs of being into me - dilated pupils, unnecessary physical contact, teasing, lots of talking, grooming around me, etc. Just all that stuff. Yet he hasn't asked me out, and I haven't as...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

I am not sure if she feels the same about me. what can I do? I've developed feelings for a female co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - Not sure where to start.... So I am a 24 year old female and have developed feelings for a co-worker who is also female but is 45years old. We have worked together for over 2years now, we work amongst a team and work with different colleagues. I wo...

I cannot keep on ignoring him. He keeps on asking me to his, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am only 14 but have a boyfriend I think he is super sweet and super cute but he is always asking me round to his. I always decline because I am too nervous because he seems to eager to move on with our relationship but all we have ...

We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...

My crush is suddenly avoiding me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I met my personal trainer end of March 2017 and immediately we clicked. We had so much fun together we would laugh all the time. He inspired me to push harder and even to go to the gym. Sometimes he would touch me in an unusual flirtatious way (but ...

So hard to control my feelings

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I've been in a problematic "relationship" with a married acquaintance from my work for the past few months. We aren't full-time co-workers but we work together alone enough when he's around. I'm 23 and he's around 39-40ish. I had developed a bit ...

Do you think our relationship go anywhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...

How can I discourage his interest while still being kind to him and, if possible, remain friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

13 May 2017 (F) - There's this boy in one of my classes who clearly is interested in me. He goes out of his way to talk to me in the hallways, after class, walking into school...he even waits at my locker sometimes. I'm afraid I've inadvertently led him on a bit, ...

Are there any ways of telling for certain whether he's into me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - There's this boy that I really like from college, and I'm a bit confused because he exhibits ALL the signs of being into me in person but doesn't message me that often. I can't tell if it's because exams are coming up and he needs A*s for uni, ...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

Why does my teacher take photos of me? Yes I do have a crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - So I have a crush on this particular teacher for at least 4 years already. At first, i was completely not interested and found him extremely ugly. However, tables had been turned around in my second year of my Secondary school. Apparently he f...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfri...

How do I converse with my crush? I'm shy. Should I try, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - So i have a crush on this boy at my school, he's in the same year as i am, but I've never talked to him, not like a real conversation. I'm very shy, and also his friends are like not the same group of people as my friends. I'm afraid that if i ta...

I have a crush on a 16 year old. And I'm 18

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

9 May 2017 (M) - Now before i start 1. Please do not be too hard on me and 2. i am 18 now i got that off my chest let's get to the point: Okay i will admit i have multiple crushes at my school but there is one that makes me feel dirty. That crush is on a girl two...

How do I ask him his true feelings, and ask about commitment, without it appearing as me pressuring him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. He doesn't live near by so we video chat, call each other and text more then we see eachother. I sense things getting serious by the way he starts talking about our future together. He consta...

Drunk kissed my crush. We attend same classes too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I'm sorry this is so long! But please I need an advise T.T So there's this guy in my college, let's call him M, who shares all classes with me (since it's a small college we are a little class of 19 people that will be together during all the 4...

Could I successfully end up with my first love after all the years we've been apart? Been divorced, now separated from my second husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - I need serious advice. Do you think you can end up with your 1st love after years apart? I have 3 children, seperated for over a year, married twice but all my children from my 2nd husband. When I was 15 I fell in love for the 1st time-was no...

Why is my colleague behaving like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

7 May 2017 (F) - I am in my 40s and wanted to ask for advice regarding someone in my workplace. He is in his 50s but I never really used to talk to him as he used to work on a different floor and I didn't have much interaction with that department. The...

What are the signs a shy guy liks you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

7 May 2017 (F) - What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? I'm friends with and sit next to a boy in one of my classes and I started to realise that I was really into him earlier this year. I was directing a show and I asked him if he'd please be in my band an...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Is he being a friend or is he truly interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - So I've been friends with this man from my church. He is considerably older than me and he is single. He also has a 3 year old boy. We get along great and I babysit his child from time to time. I've had feelings for him for a few months and I don't ...

My husband is almost forcing me to have sex with my lesbian neighbor

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - Hi, my husband has recently come home after a month away and suddenly started wanting me to have sex with my lesbian next door neighbour, he doesn't want to watch or be involved at all. We have known she has a crush on me for a long time and given ...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

Do I confess to my date about his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - What do I do? I've got a date with this guy who I've fancied for a long time, but last year, I catfished his ex. Not on purpose, I just wasn't comfortable at the time with my sexuality. We spoke every day and then I realised after a couple ...

What can I do to prevent falling for other men while I'm in this relationship? And what do I do about the guy that I kissed recently?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

3 May 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I love my man with every once of me. I cannot imagine my life without him. I care for him more than I care for myself. I constantly worry about his well being, whether he's happy, whether he's eaten, tired ...

Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...

Unhappy in my relationship and I'm attracted to my friend but he's got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

3 May 2017 (F) - Hello dearcupid, I am a 24 year old woman, currently in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend--let's call him K. We have been together for over five years, and a lot has changed during that time. He is about to turn 39, so there is an age ...