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writes:So I have a crush on this particular teacher for at least 4 years already. At first, i was completely not interested and found him extremely ugly. However, tables had been turned around in my second year of my Secondary school. Apparently he found out my constant teasing from my friends... Ever since then, I have noticed that he keeps staring at me and as well as taking photos. I am not sure if i am thinking too much but i have seen it quite a few times. Apparently he told his class that he had gf and was getting married last year. I was really sad but i have tried to ignore him and stop thinking of him. However, to no avail... Why does he do these actions anyway?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (12 May 2017):
 What do you mean he takes photos of you? Does he ask you to pose for him or does he do it in a clandestine manner?
Either way, it's beyond weird and it's very very wrong. Get over your crush... Nothing's going to come off it and you'll just get used, hurt and ridiculed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2017): I agree with the others- are you really and truly sure that he is taking pictures? Sometimes the camera light comes on phones by accident. OR he may be taking pics of the whole class working for his teaching portfolio ( although he should inform the class)...maybe he wants to get them hard at work so didnt give them warning. I would be careful before jumping to a conclusion. Have you actually seen any of the photos he has taken? Are you absolutely sure this isnt just wishful thinking? This is a very serious allegation that you should not make unless you are sure.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 May 2017):
 Are you completely sure he is taking photos off you? Because if he is then this needs to be reported straight away before you or another student gets hurt badly by him.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (11 May 2017):
 This crush isn't important. You shouldn't act on it.
You need to report him if he is taking pictures of you. It's not okay for him and he shouldn't be a teacher, if he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2017): Sweetheart, just today I read an article about a woman now in her 40s who was a teen and being groomed by her teacher. He eventually had sex with her (raped her) and she has lived with the self hatred for her whole life . Please don't do anything, report him, he is being inappropriate and one day in your adulthood you will look back and see how bad it was. Please report him. X http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4493462/The-devastating-toll-seduced-teacher.html read that
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2017): If you're telling the truth, and you are not spited by the fact he is getting married; under no circumstances is it appropriate for the teacher to be taking pictures of you or any student. It had nothing to do with a school activity, you don't indicate that he asked your permission, and somehow I believe you know it is inappropriate.
I find it a little odd. You're old enough to know that it is inappropriate and didn't mention it to anyone. Instead you brought it here; because you're sad to know he's getting married? Now the motive seems questionable. It would appear you withheld the information to cause trouble, or whether it ever really happened?
Why didn't you mention this weird behavior to your parents?
They would have known what to do. Now he can dispose of the pictures and deny everything.
He is an older man taking advantage of his position around young students. He could have been removed to protect you and other students. Now anything you say might be questionable and your reaction to all this is very unhealthy.
Regardless of the outcome, it is best you inform your parents of what happened; so you may receive counseling if needed. If there is anyway proof can be obtained to confirm what you say, he will be immediately dismissed from his position.
Did any of the other students witness him taking pictures of you? What were your friends teasing you about? If they know he was taking pictures, what they saw supports what you have said.
I want you to know that if this was fabricated in any way, you could do extreme harm. If it is true, he should be held accountable for his actions.
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reader, N91 +, writes (11 May 2017):
 That sounds very inappropriate.
Are you certain that he's taking photos of you? If you have proof you need to report this behaviour as it's extremely creepy.
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