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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mi...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I thin...

How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm ...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

How do I stop falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend at college. He's not your average stud bit of a stoner, very clever and it nerdy but probably THE funniest guy I have ever met, I could be having a really shit time and I'd talk to him for like 2 minutes and he puts a ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing ...

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...

Did I just get friend-zoned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??...

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

I'm crushing on an older female doctor. How do I ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I have a huge crush on a medical professional. I want to be as vague as I can be so bare with me. TL;DR I have a crush on my female doctor who's twice my age. How do I ask her out? Should I even do it? She's easily double my age... she's su...

Is he interested or not? He's confusing me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - So, I work with a foreign guy (a backpacker) and we've worked together for about 3 months. Probably in the past month or so I've taken more of an interest in him and actually find him very attractive and I feel like he flirts with me while we work ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

How can I find out if we are more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - I have known this guy for about 7 years now; we were good friends at uni but then we lost touch when we graduated. We recently reconnected at a mutual friends wedding, and have been messaging on and off ever since. For the past couple of months, we ...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

I like him, it's been 5 months but there seems to be no initiative from his side

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago who started flirting with me. I did not like him to begin but then we got talking and I saw a really handsome interesting person. The flirting continued and I cold feel some chemistry between us, A few weeks later ...

How can I get my crush to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - There's a guy I'm interested in but I just can't seem to get him to notice me. I try to talking to him, flirting, touching, writing him some steamy notes, but he just won't respond. I asked him to our school Valentine's day dance and he turned me ...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (M) - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

I'm torn between two guys. I'm wondering, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - Hello anyone out there willing to give me advice. I seem to have gotten myself into a significant amount of a problem. I'm torn between two guys. One my High school sweetheart Man1 whom I went out with for around 4 and a half years. We'd always a...

My GCSE soon. Feel I am running out of time to ask her out. but I'm hesitant and shy about it. what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 February 2017 (M) - After asking multiple questions on this site I can now confirm that a girl I know well has a crush on me (she keeps staring) and I like her back. It's almost like a magnet; almost as if we are fated to be with each other. Whenever she stares at me...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

Is it likely that we will get in trouble for being together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, we go to the same highschool and we were not looking for love when we found it. In my state I know that the age of consent is 16, but he will turn 18 before I turn 16. We are both concerned that we will get in t...

Is he trying to keep me on the back burner? Or am I misreading the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - Dear cupid. I was seeing a guy last year for a couple of months. I fell for him. Was completely head over hills. We spoke all day every day and saw each other as much as possible. He was over here temporarily for work. We both knew it would be...

Does this married man fancy me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - Does this matried man just like me or do you think he wants more? Reasons I think he does: Caught him staring at me and he smiled and shook his head a little. Saw him looking out of the corner of my eye and when I turned my head he averted his ...

What's happening to me? Despite his disrespectful approach, why would I start to enjoy being disrespected?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - I know reading my post, my age is going to be the first thing you would all look at. Can't she be wise? At her age?? I have reached a point in my life where I am so tired of being disrespected that I have started seeing it as a normal occurrenc...

How do I beat my shyness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

6 February 2017 (M) - I've known that somebody in my school is attracted to me, and I have to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I and my ' crush ' are shy people (We usually talk to each other and get along well). It's difficult to proceed as I am ...

How do I proceed ? I want to ask her out and we are both shy people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

5 February 2017 (M) - I've known that somebody in my school has been attracted to me, and I have come to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I can say myself that I am a shy person and my ' crush ' is shy person (We usually talk to each other and get ...

He was once my crush. Does he like me? Or is he just being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - There is this guy at school who keeps staring at me. We are actually quite good friends and do talk outside of school from time to time. I genuinely trust him but for some reason, he's been acting strangely lately. It started about six months...

18 year old senior at school. How could I attempt to seduce this teacher at my school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I am a 18 year old female in high school as a senior. I had this teacher for the first semester and over time just seemed to really like him for a lot of reasons mostly because of how intelligent he is. I am not a very sexual person and could...

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

My crush is moving to another country. Do I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - Back in 2015, I had met a boy at my school who had just moved from Colombia. We became really close friends, and within a few months, I had developed feelings for him. Now, in February 2017, he's moving back to Colombia in a couple of weeks,...

Its awkward at work and I am considering quitting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

2 February 2017 (F) - Months ago I made mistake of expressing interest in a work colleague by giving him my number but he never called/texted then exaggerated/lied as to why he didn't call.I felt little embarrassed but no big deal.I tried to be still friendly and ...

His mother threatened to kick him out if he didn't break up with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

1 February 2017 (F) - Recently, I broke up with my ex. This was because his mother had threatened to kick him out if he didn't. We're both under eighteen and it was going really well, but then that happened and now, although we still want to talk to each other like we ...

Grossed Out by Violent Behavior

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

1 February 2017 (F) - Hi. I wrote two times here about an older man I had a crush on, got advice here, stepped back and realized that like the aunts and uncles warned that he was a no go. (Thanks again!) I've been cordial since he works/lives not too far from where I ...