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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Feelings for my cousin driving me crazy. What's the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - Help. I have started having incestuous feelings towards my cousin I can't help it but she is causing it unintentionally, how do I tell her without making it awkward for both of us? My cousin is very close to me she is the only child and we work in ...

Do I just stop talking to him or keep waiting ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - hey everyone, i'm so confused about a guy right now. I don't know what to do. anyway i started talking to this guy a while ago and we started talking everyday back in september. we have hung out, i've stayed at his house twice the second time i st...

I find his smell attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - There's someone that I really fancy, and I find their smell really attractive to the point that I can tell whether or not they're in a room just by their smell. Is this weird and does it mean anything?...

Guy asked me out, but he has a female friend who worries me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Met this guy recently and he seems to have a major thing for me and recently told me he liked me. His friends say I am his "type" physically and he is always giving me compliments etc. I told him Id think it over and to give me time. He is not my ...

Men, can you be turned off a woman and lose attraction, based on one thing she said ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello! There's a man that i serve every day at work, I really like him, and he seems to like me too- we just smile and sort of gaze at each other, even when we're not saying anything, and he does seem shy and quite nervous but tries to initiat...

Can I safely assume that I don't have a young man that is attracted to me and is just being friendly/flirty with me and enjoy it as it is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am a 40 year old and normally find when a man winks at you its either friendly or they are interested in you. However a younger man (I think he is about 25) joined our workplace a year ago and on his first day of being introduced to me winked at ...

How do I find out what he feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3312 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - there is this guy whom i like. but i don't think he likes me in the same way. but sometimes he makes me feel that he likes me in the same way too.. so i am totally confused... what should i do???...

I'm obsessed with someone who doesn't know I exist! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1158 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am obsessed w/this guy who I am 99.9% sure doesn't even know I exist. He is about a 2 years or so older than me and we currently do not go to the same college but we will next year. This obsession all started when I came across his instagram page, ...

Mixed messages and conflicting signs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Sorry this is a bit long. I have had a massive crush on a colleague for almost a year now (he is 30yrs, I am 27yrs). Our roles do not conflict or overlap, and neither one of us is in a position of authority over the other. Some of my closer friend...

I want her in my life, but I don't understand some of her reactions. What's the best way forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection. She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think...

Smitten with my female best friend. She has a Bf. Am I Bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I am so beyond confused and hoping somebody will point my thoughts in the right direction.... I have always been bi-curious, but never actually thought bisexual! Reason being i've had 3 serious boyfriends, but never been tempted to have a girlfr...

I'm still attracted to men. While she is the only woman I've ever been attracted to. Am I Bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3315 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I've never liked women except for one brief crush on my classmate during my sophomore year of high school. I am now in my junior year of college and I think I might be in love with my literature professor. She's 45. I'm 24. I'm always thin...

I have a lesbian crush on my boss. Should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have a lesbian crush on my boss. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years after coming out as gay, so she does know I'm into women. I have a feeling she may be into women as well, she has never spoken of a boyfriend and in past ...

Did I ruin the friendship? I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - To cut a long story short, I'm in love with my male best friend. We've known each other 8 years and were close.. I came onto him a few weeks ago and we ended up having sex and now all these feelings have suddenly come from nowhere. We used to tex...

Am I reading too much into this?? Should I just back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

22 November 2015 (M) - Have a question, for the lady's, been seeing a woman over two month's, seeing each other once a week, it's really good, feel's great. I know she has family an friends, needs her alone time, but girl's if you really like a guy, are you content,...

What could have happened to this great guy I corresponded with and did meet, once?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - A man I am extremely interested in is supposedly in the counter intelligence community in the Middle East. It is hard to determine if this is so as these individuals can never speak very much about their work and you can only operate on blind fa...

How can I keep his interest high? Don't want to scare him off. Nor appear desperate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 25 and I've been single for 6 months and not had any sexual contact for about 7 months. I'm a very sexual person so this has been a little frustrating but I'm trying not to let it get the best of me. But I'm starting to find the...

How can I talk to my crush when I have social anxiety disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Okay, I'm going to try and make this short. I like the foreign exchange student, he's absolutely gorgeous, from Italy. Now I don't only like him because he's gorgeous. He seems so sweet and nice, very friendly. But I haven't talked to him, and I ...

A friend has a crush on my BF. What needs to be done to discourage her unwelcome attention ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I need some help here regarding a female Friend who has been asking my Boyfriend out. My Boyfriend and I discuss about boundaries with opposite gender friends and we both agree hanging out one on one with the opposite gender ...

Is he interested or just want a hook up? Is he testing me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - So this guy has been flirting with me during this period. He would give me obvious signs that he's interested. He would sometimes stop flirting or talking for days or a week, then he simply comes back and flirts/talks to me again as if nothing has ...

How can I convince him to not break up with me, without me becoming a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - Today I had a serious talk with my boyfriend of two years. He wants to break up. I don't. He's not sure himself. I want to try to make this work, win him over. The situation is a little bit weird. Our relationship was nothing short of a fairy...

Why did he completely ignore me? He even tried to hide his face, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - So there's this guy, I have been hooking up with him for a while now and we talk on and off. So I saw him today at school and he was sitting with his friend chilling. I think he had just worked out. He saw me but I didn't see him. My friend...

Has he lied to me again about what he really said to this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I posted here last week about my boyfriend allowing this girl to pick off off his plate, take the cherry from his drink etc. Both myself and boyfriend's sister in law spoke to him telling him it's wrong, that he shouldn't have allowed it. He said ...

How can I be less self conscious about dating? What could encourage him to ask for a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3322 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm a very self-conscious person when it comes to dating and relationships. I've never been asked for a date nor had a boyfriend. And everytime a guy gives me signs that he's interested, i end up not believing that he likes me because ...

I am crushing on my Dad's student!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3311 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - My crush is my dad's student. Recently I got to know that my dad itself is searching the suitable bride for him. And since I like him very much the thought of my dad searching match for him is killing me. Please help me on this one. Is there a way I ...

I think my English teacher is attracted to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I think my English teacher is attracted to me. I am a 19 year old college student and he is a man in his late twenties. My boyfriend is in his class with me. I feel like this teacher either doesn't like me being with my boyfriend because a couple in ...

Feeling very protective about her. How can I make sure that she feels the same way I do emotionally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - ok so for the past 5months my gf and i have been going out. It started off ok and is better now but see im an overly protective guy so i dont like it when shes with other guys, even if they're my friends, because i just cant risk losing her to some ...

Would it be wrong to meet with him in a public place in day time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I'm 16 and he's 20 and we met online. Before you say I'm a naive stupid teenager I've thought this through oh too many times. It turns out we actually live very close (like same town close). I know he wasn't lying about where he lived because I ...

I love my boyfriend but can't forget my crush

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - I crushed him since high school. He didn't seem like me back. But I can't forget him until now. We have been together since 1 year. After that we separate, haven't meet for nearly 10 years. After 10 years later, we contact back from Facebook. We ...

I don't want to play games, but should I back off? Am I being too intense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - Would like to ask the women a question. Met a woman a couple months ago, were in our late fifty's, been going out once a week, for a month or so. I really like her, like in falling for her, but should I stay the way I am? I treat her really good,...

Guy gives me winks the whole time. How do I make sure that he truly likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I've known this guy for a few months. He used to flirt a lot and stare at me and he doesn't mind staring at me even though I catch him. He also made intense and deep eye contact which makes me feel that he had locked the whole secrets i hide. ...

Is he blowing me off or just busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - Hi I have met a guy on an online dating site and really like him. So need advice because haven't dated in a while. He works night so I understand we can't talk all the time with me on days but for the first few days we would talk for hours on pho...

He didn't talk to me for 2 weeks, now he starts again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - There is a guy at my university he used to stare at me alot and he made eye contat for so long, also he would flirt with me and smile at me alot. Then he suddenly stopped talking to me for almost 2 weeks or so. The past 2 days, he started to appro...

Has he changed or is he still the player he was before?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - I'll keep things simple. I met this guy a few years ago. We got along really well and I started to like him as more than just a friend(but I never told him how I felt). He said he liked me and wanted me to give him a chance. Life got in the way a...

I told my crush how I felt about her and she replied 'so cute'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

9 November 2015 (M) - I sent my crush a long paragraph saying that I liked her and stuff and all she responded was "So Cute" with a bunch of Heart of emojis... what does this mean??? ...

Have had a crush on a special lady I've known for years, but is she just leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Let me set the scene, I am a designer who is tall and head over heels for one spesh lady. I have many issues, this being one of them. I have a crush on a girl from uni. Since we graduated, she's been chatting to me loads. She ...

Could our feelings be mutual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

6 November 2015 (F) - Are our feelings mutual for each other? After a long day, I like to go to my local coffee shop and just chill there and do some reading online. There is a barista there who is always flirting with me by complimenting me on something. He would te...

He is 19 or 20 and my coach. I have feelings for him. Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

4 November 2015 (F) - I have a question about my coach. I play basketball in school and the competition goes for half the year. The coach started coaching when I started playing and immediately we just got on. He is not actually a teacher at the school but just someone ...

To me he's the perfect guy. How can I encourage him spend time with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

4 November 2015 (F) - Hi, Aunts, I'm a freakishly shy, eccentric tomboy, often mistaken as being lesbian because I don't flirt with guys. What they don't know is that I don't flirt with random people because I have been eternally dedicated to a boy for 6 years- a boy w...

It started so well. We shared a first kiss. How can I get her to understand how much I care about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

4 November 2015 (M) - me and my gf have been going out for about to be 5 months and from day 1 i would make her so happy i was also her first kiss it happened at a dance and since then i have tried to kiss her and make her happy again but she wont crack, and in my heart...

I know I must move on. We tried FWB after we broke up. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Essentially we dated a bit a few years ago, but for 2 and 1/2 years he and I were FWB. I cant say for sure but I know we were both in love but too scared to say anything. Also I'm an Asian girl and he is Jewish guy, were both nerdy and lost our...

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship wit...

Girls, question, are these red flags? Am I coming on too strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - Girls, question, are these red flags? Four dates so far, I think everything is going great, she doesn't say she misses me, loves to be with me, tells me not to fall to fast, tells me , I can go out with other women. She does tell me she likes se...

Considering our strong connection why she doesn't break up with him? Is this girl worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - So i met this girl at school through one of my ex girlfriend's friends. We ended up exhanching numbers at one point, we would text often and have lunch as a group at school. We got to know each other over the course of a month and came to learn we...

He and I are both virgins. When we have our first date should it be a lip lock kiss or a french kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am chatting with a guy online. He is from my country but is working in another country at the moment. He is a christian virgin and so am I. We have shown interest in each other and are willing to take a step further into Dating...

I've got a crush, but I don't know if he has. What if my friend misunderstood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

2 November 2015 (F) - My bff that i have know for a couple of years gave me a number of a guy that has the same intrests as me (let's call him alex)... He is pratically a copy of my but a guy and on Halloween me and my bff and her friends went out around the town and ...

Feeling nervous and unable to talk to him properly. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

1 November 2015 (F) - One guy is staying opposite to my home. I am seeing him there for almost one year. The very first time he used to stare at me but i just ignored. Sometimes he will be doing something to impress me but i just ignored. I started neglecting him a...