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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy for a few months. He used to flirt a lot and stare at me and he doesn't mind staring at me even though I catch him. He also made intense and deep eye contact which makes me feel that he had locked the whole secrets i hide. Recently he has been giving me winks and he still make an intense eye contact. Whenever im talking to someone or with a group of friends, he joins in and he stares at me and he open a convo with me. He also made a nickname for me, and he calls me with that name ALL the time. He would tease me in a friendly which i find it a bit immature but cute i guess. He always gives me a grin whenever i talk to him. He would sometimes make an excuse to talk. While we were at the class, he came to me and asked for a pen and he smiled and stared and I said 'is there any thing wrong?' He smiled and said 'i dont mind looking at you all day'. Is he interested in me? If so, how do i make sure that he does like/want me? I really like him but i dont how to get closer to him since he slays with his confidence. I find confident guys attractive but sometimes i feel shy when he talks to me. And how do I get him to talk to me more without me seeming needy or desperate? And do the winks he gives me the whole time means He likes me or just finds me physically attractive? Because my friends told me that guys who wink at girls just finds a girl physically attractive, and i dont want to appear as a piece of meat in front of him because this is just disrespectful. I need to make sure that he likes me for my personality and who i am.
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (13 November 2015):
Is this his behavior with other women or just you? Perhaps you are not around him that much and can't be sure.
He is definitely interested in you! There is no way he couldn't be, considering the attention and compliments he pays to you.
He may come off as confident but lacks enough of it to ask you out. That makes you the one who is in control here, and you may have to be the one who takes this relationships the last few steps to dating. Try the pick-up line that Honeypie has suggested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2015): Dont worry about him..he likes you shy..and i think he will bide his time until he breaks the ice enough to know you better..till then you just carry on nicely.
Ive got a better nickname for him now..its speedy..you know "slow down youre going too fast!"
ok speedy.
You could change it weekly if you want.
Why not try to just be friends for a while.
Youre under no pressure to sleep with him.
If in doubt then leave it out ..as they say.
But for goodness sake dont rev it up too fast because its all something that might-maybe happen ,one day, a very long way away!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 November 2015):
 Next time he winks, ask him if he has something in his eye or if he is trying to ask you out....
See how that goes...
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