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writes:Girls, question, are these red flags?Four dates so far, I think everything is going great, she doesn't say she misses me, loves to be with me, tells me not to fall to fast, tells me , I can go out with other women.She does tell me she likes seeing me,am very romantic, I don't hold anything back, how I feel, I don't play games, like ,act, like I don't care.I know all this stuff, act like you don't care, an they fall for you, I don't want to do that,to me you are supposed to treat a woman like, a princess.I know am probably coming on too strong, but I feel, wonderful, I want her to feel the same, I feel like I've all ready have fallen, An its been only a couple months since we been talking, thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 November 2015):
 I too think you are moving too fast for her.
And I DO think it's a red light on BOTH your parts, that she TELLS you that you should date other women and you keep pursuing her.
I would ask her if the notion that you should date other women is her roundabout way of telling you, that she is JUST not that into you. Tell her to just be honest.
Then you will know.
4 dates and expecting I love yous? I miss you? WAY WAY too fast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2015): If she is telling you after four dates you can go out with other women then you have your answer.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (3 November 2015):
Disagree with female anon.
You're moving too fast and she's as much as stated that. Having the exclusive talk at this early stage is likely to scare her off.
Enjoy the time you spend together and do not pressure her under any circumstances. Time will tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2015): If its been two months then maybe its time for the "Exclusive chat."
You need to know where you stand.If she agrees to being exclusive then try backing off and calming down.
Maybe you are ciming forwards because she is holding back and keeping her options open
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