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I'm still attracted to men. While she is the only woman I've ever been attracted to. Am I Bi?

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Question - (24 November 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2015)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've never liked women except for one brief crush on my classmate during my sophomore year of high school. I am now in my junior year of college and I think I might be in love with my literature professor.

She's 45. I'm 24.

I'm always thinking about her and how gorgeous she is.

You should listen to this woman read poetry! It's quite an experience, almost otherworldly.

I'd love to pick her brain and talk to her all night. I'd like to kiss her but I'm not going to because I'm not stupid.

As amazing as she is, I wouldn't risk my whole academic career for her. I've worked way too long and hard for my degree and I'm so close.

Besides, she probably doesn't even like me that way. I say probably because I know nothing about her.

Anyway, my question is: What am I? Does this make me a lesbian? I mean, I'm still sexually attracted to men. But I'm sexually attracted to my professor and she's the ONLY woman I've ever liked that way. Am I Bi?

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2015):

Denizen agony auntIt's possible that you are. Would that be a problem? It might be a stage you are passing through. I have known people think they are of one sexual persuasion only to find they were just exploring new territory. Nothing wrong with that if no-one gets hurt.

You are sensible not to try and hit on your professor. I commend your restraint.

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