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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How long does it take somebody to get over nonstop lying, cheating & betrayal??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Hi All!! Im praying that somebody out there will have some answers to my massive confusion in my relationship. 4 months after starting a relationship with the guy im still with currently. He proposed to me. I accepted due to being massively head ...

Do you think I my married lover is tiring of me? In the beginning we talked. Now he only sends a text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this married man for 8 months now, who doesn't have sex with his wife I guess. He is 38 and I am 22. He was my first lover. He took me to his house 3 times and we never had actual sex because I said I want to remain a virgin. ...

At 19 I kissed another guy. What is the kindest way to tell my husband the truth? I can't forgive my indiscretion.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - So I've been with my husband ten years, married for two years. We have always had our ups and downs but now we are very strong and we have two children. However, when I was nineteen I made a terrible mistake. I kissed another man in a club while ...

Is becoming angry a normal reaction to being accused of cheating?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2963 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - If you accuse your boyfriend of cheating and he says he is remaining calm because if he doesn't he will become violent and walk out the door and never come back, would that raise a red flag? He said he doesn't like being called a cheater. Is t...

Should I wait for him to develop feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I proposed a boy... at first he accepted, but then he wanted time from me... He told that he hasn't that kind of feelings for me, even he said, from the beginning he thought me as as a sister... so he needed time to grow his feelings... but...

My boyfriend has always been rather shady. Is this a red flag?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I would like some advice on whether the following scenario would raise a red flag: Today I was driving home from work, on the phone with my boyfriend. Suddenly he said he had to take a call, so I was like OK, call me back. When I got home 40mins l...

My girlfriend is moving into a house with a guy she once cheated with. I'm not happy about this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

27 September 2016 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend recently moved out into a student house. I've been with her for a few months but shes moving into a house with the boy who she cheated on her boyfriend with previously. He has no respect for boyfriends and always tries to hit on ...

A text from another woman has made me wonder if I can trust my boyfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my b/f for 3 years and just found a text from a woman saying she misses him too. I questioned him and he said its nothing just someone he's helping find a job. He says she's nothing and not to worry about it.I said why would you tell ...

How Can one forgive BETRAYAL of someone you love, cheating and now the the woman is pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - I met the man of my dreams, my best friend over a year ago. we live together and his kids come over every other weekend " I Love Them". we went on vacation 5- months ago and I saw a girl kept calling? I asked who is she then my life forever cha...

She confessed to cheating just 2 weeks into our LDR, I’d love to resolve this but don’t know what she’s thinking! Any advice appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

25 September 2016 (M) - Hello, today im requesting a bit of relationship advice Me and my girl met a while ago and remained freinds but this year we got a lot closer and started going out for a month, just before the month was up i had to leave and go overseas for wor...

I found oral contraceptives and condoms in my boyfriend's room. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - I found used oral contraceptive in my boyfriend room which I didn't use and also found 3 condoms under his pillow I asked him and he said he just bought it. Please what should I do ...

Am I crazy for allowing my husband to sleep with other men and women?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together off and on for 25 years and been married 13. He has cheated on me a lot in the past and I've forgiven him, he promised it would never happen again unless he talked to me about it. He works in another state, h...

I wonder if my boyfriend is cheating, how do I know for sure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

24 September 2016 (F) - I would like to know whether or not my boyfriend is cheating. Of course you can never really know but understanding the signs my boyfriend is presenting would be great, if any at all. I have been dating this guy for roughly 2 months and a bit...

I'm afraid if I get too close to this lovely man that I might cheat on my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I met a guy yesterday and he bought me lunch. I like him I find him attractive and I think he feels the same about me. We agreed yesterday that we will meet again today at some volunteering project but when he arrived I only greeted him and stayed ...

Why would my Bf's penis go limp after foreplay? Does it suggest that he's cheated on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is 63. I am 45. He is not married. Neither am I. Just to clarify. We are good friends. Our sexual relationship has always been quite wonderful too. And for a man in his 60's, my boy...

Would the average guy spend 1.5 hours in a store or was he lying?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Is it possible for a guy - your boyfriend - to be in a store for 1.5 hours??? The same store??? He was out for awhile and I asked him about it and he said he was at an auto parts store for that long. He said he was browsing. That there were lots ...

My LDR is stressing me out. I do want to keep the relationship. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - My relationship is stressing me out. To give a bit of background. I was with my ex for 7 years and he cheated. Left me for her. I was single for 9-10 months when I got with my current boyfriend. We've been together 8 months now. Everything w...

Should I separate from my husband? Or push on in what feels like a dead marriage ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my hubby for nearly 11 years now and his cousin is one of his best friends and as a product of that, his cousin is also MY best friend. In fact we are closer than my hubby and his cousin is, our style of communication is the same...

I'm feeling hurt after finding a photo of my Gf giving a kiss to an older guy at an outing with work colleagues. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - i found a picture of my girlfriend kissing an older guy at a bar. My girlfriend an i have been dating for almost 6 years now and i always let her know that i do not mind her going out to hang with co-workers or friends. She never goes anywhere so...

How can I find a way to trust my boyfriend? Because I feel I can't trust him

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - PLEASE HELP ME. I am at the END of my rope. I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and I just CANNOT trust him no matter what. No matter what he says or does. I CANNOT trust him. I CANNOT DO IT. It is making me paranoid, jealous, ins...

Is it right to take a lover now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - I am a twenty two year old married Indian woman. My husband has been working overseas for the last four years. He last visited me in August 2014 when we spent two weeks together I spent my twentieth birthday in December 2014 with my parents,...

My husband's constant staring makes me think he will cheat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - My husband is a good man.i share a good relationship .he is very handsome and well educated. I am also equally attractive. However I caught him flirting just by eye staring wit few women,they are less attractive comparing to both of us( am not ...

How do I cope with all the guilt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - Please don't judge me! Two years ago I got hired as a live in nanny for a family that I met at a gym. About 9 months after I started working there the father kissed me. There had been some flirting hit I didn't think anything of it until he kissed m...

My married BF doesn't want his wife to know about us until he has removed all his belongings from his former home. Seems he cares more about his belongings than me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

14 September 2016 (F) - Ok so here is my dilemma I am 29 dating my friend who is married he is 30 and his twin brother who is also 30. Ok so how this happened was I just recently moved back home and I ran into an old friend of mine that I have had a crush on since I ...

Please advise!!! What should I do about this situation with my girlfriend??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

14 September 2016 (M) - Okay, so this is my first time posting any sort of question online. I've been on and off this site for years just browsing never thinking I would ever need to post anything on here, but here I am. So here's the issue, me and my girlfriend have bee...

Our LDR started out with good communication and I just want that back. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - Help! I've been in an on again off again long distance relationship with a younger man for about a year. He came on very strong, consistent, and attentive, and things were great. He would call, text, we had weekly face time dates, and he would ...

He's so ready to give up on our affair. What should I do? He's married, and he's unjustly accused me of being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone I need advice on something I've Been messing around with this married man for about 2 years. I haven't spoken to this man in 3 weeks over the labor day weekend I believe he seen me talking to another man an now he is acussing me o...

LDR boyfriend has been chatting inappropriately with other women and even worse, with his ex... And has painted me like a monster in front of her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and long distance for almost 1 year. Up until a few days ago, I thought our relationship was amazing. I considered this relationship the healthiest, most honest, and loving one I've ever been in. H...

I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but she is convinced I've been unfaithful. Do we have any chance of getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

7 September 2016 (M) - My Girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her. Throw me out, saying I've no respect, can't really love her and I've lied. The thing is I haven't cheated I had a weekend with my brother and we stayed in a hotel up in London. I didnt tell her I was s...

My Cheating Girlfriend.... What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - So here it. As I write this my girlfriend is at 35,000ft with the guy she has been cheating on me with on their way to Tenerife. I had been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. For a couple of months now I had suspected she was cheating a...

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2988 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is m...

How do I go forward? He often lied to me. Why did he hurt me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - I left my boyfriend after a six year turbulent relationship. I gave him everything, I saved him from losing his house and bailed him out on numerous occasions. The final straw was finding out he was online sexting with his ex, I walked away. ...

What's his game? Why did he phone me after all his did in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - My ex and I broke up over 8 months ago because he kept on registering on dating sites, after me giving him chance after chance. It was not long before he had met someone else. I stayed on my own. He has now got in touch because he has broke up...

My fiance risked our relationship for one night of fun

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - I am engaged to be married on the 24th. Last weekend my bf had his bachelor party weekend in New York . I couple of his buddies were egging him on to hook up with a random girl. They ended up inviting a group of girls back to their hotel were he ...

I'm stuck in a lie to 2 women. Now confused and missing my daughter. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

4 September 2016 (M) - Hi agony aunts, I have a problem and I'm sorry if this is long. I was married to a girl who is from a different country - we met when she was studying. Fast Forward two years and I married to her. We had a child who is now 18 months but my wi...

Why would he do this? I've been faithful while he's been cheating. What do I need to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - This is not my first time on this site. Finally I made the decision to end a long term relationship that was awful. I had discovered my ex had been having online sexual chats with his ex, I left. After many ''I'm sorry's and she means nothing, I...

He has photos of other women on his phone. He forbids me to do some things. Surely he is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - my husband always speak of his past with his ex,s. Holidays, food,ext. And recently i found a photo of a girl hidden in a bible. With love letter cards. He is always on his phone. Dont say who it was. In the past i found out he was chattin...

I just found out that the LDR guy I'd been dating is married and has a kid. I've blocked him but should I give him a chance to explain?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out yesterday that the guy I’m with is married and has a child. I blocked him in wechat and whatsapp. It was such a disastrous feeling with I saw his Facebook of his wife and the child’s photos and not forgetting his we...

Trust and cheating. How can I win back my partner's love and trust after all the has happened over the years ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for over 20 years and I very much love him with all my heart. Yet I found myself at 43 entering into an affair with a younger guy. Didn't take me long to realize this was a big mistake and I returned to my husband, con...

He's married. Wondering why he acted like that? Was he testing me, or was he seeing me as a potential client?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to hear others opinion about this scenario. I'm single mom, professional and attractive as others say. I am not dating and not interested in dating even after 3 years of my divorce. I always get attention and I don't care about...