A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:my husband always speak of his past with his ex,s. Holidays, food,ext. And recently i found a photo of a girl hidden in a bible. With love letter cards. He is always on his phone. Dont say who it was. In the past i found out he was chatting with other women on his cell. Even photo on. Saying it was old girl from college who send photo so he can see how her hair looks like. He is acting sometimes strainge. How can i believe that he is not cheating on me? I am not allowed to look in his stuff. He has forbidden me. His cell are always 24/7 on him. He dont speak to me at night. He to tired just want to sleep. We hardly have sex. I am forbidden to stay at home. Must work 7-7 every day. Acording to him. I am forbidden to start own business at home.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 September 2016):
 Maybe he is cheating who knows? But he is very controlling. I am sure you are not happy to live like this. You are an adult capable of making your own decisions you do not need his permission to start your own business. If he keeps controlling you, it will lead to him becoming worse and worse.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (2 September 2016):
 I think whether he is cheating or not is the least of your worries. How do you feel about him controlling everything you do? What hold does he have over you that you just allow him to tell you how you should act and what you should do? This is not a marriage.
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