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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I don't understand how a person can have more than one significant other and not feel guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hello all! I have a question that I brought up because of my ex girlfriend. When we were dating, we had gotten together and broken up several times, because she was cheating on me, but she says it is okay that she's with others and all that. ...

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

I cheated and I don't feel it eating away at me, so should I keep this to myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - To bluntly put it, I cheated on my hubby last night. It was a quick one night stand, no one knows about it, all evidence is gone and it was a few cities away from home.. I dont feel it eating away at me so.. Should i keep this to myself? We have ...

How do I let my husband know that he doesn't need to hide things from me? I'll always be there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - My husband of 15 years has been having some health issues lately. It all started suddenly. He was feeling tired and his energy levels were low. He went to see our GP and got home disappointed. Apparently she only gave him some basic blood tests and ...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

I found my dad is cheating on my mom... AGAIN! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I feel very sad and disappointed. I just found my dad has been texting another woman. This is the third time I find out he does this. The first two times I have told my mom about it and she tried to deal with it. The last time thi...

He sent this woman sexual text messages but he said he did it because he thought it was a friend of mine I sent to play a trick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - Hello i am a 37 year old woman and i have been in a relationship with this 50 year old man for two years. We've gad some rocky times but overall its been nice, we love each other and we had plans to marry, but last night i was on the phone with him ...

Should I leave my wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Should I leave my wife? I have always trusted her, but because she had gone out one night about 5 years ago and returned home at 4:30 in the morning, I had started to have concerns. That night, I was supposed to pick her up at 11:00. I had cal...

He's now come to terms with the break up. Why do I feel I've made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - In short, My boyfriend broke my trust by stepping over boundaries we agreed on. Even though we're long distance he told me anyway. He denied saying he cheated just that "he we across the line with another woman" even though we agreed before hand ...

Nothing happened, but I wish I could have slept with this old friend! What does that mean for my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I am in a long term (six years) relationship. I do love my boyfriend buthe works all the hours there are in his job. I see him rather infrequently. I met an old friend a month ago for a catch up. We got on really well and it was so lovely.to catch ...

My boyfriend has been talking about a "two-year itch" and I'm worried he's had enough of me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Please help, im feeling really lost and starting to doubt myself. So been with my o/h for two years, prior to getting together we had been really close friends for about 13 years. We had been amazing for a while, but for about 6 months he has been ...

I have feelings for my biological cousin, but we're both married. Should I back up and run before it's too late?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I need help! I'm a 23 year old female who's catching feelings for her bio cousin. He is 22. We were raised together until about 6, when he was adopted out. I finally found him all these years later on Facebook. So here it is, a year later and we've ...

Has he got a compulsive addiction? Dating him for 4 years. My bf's unusual obsession is joining free dating sites.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for more than 4 years. This has been held back by my bf's unusual obsession with joining free dating sites. It had been a good few months and I really thought he at last had learned his lesson. Clumsily he ac...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

How can guys be so insincere? I was dating him for 2 months, but now I find he already has a Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I was dating with this guy from work almost 2 months. He told me yesterday and the day before he likes me and misses me. Today I asked him where he was at last night. He said he was in his gf's crib and that he was horny. I said, ^^^k him and d...

How do I learn to love again after a 15 year toxic relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I am 36 and I am finally letting go of a toxic relationship, Im afraid it will not be easy but I'm leaning on others for support and reading a lot online that offers helpful suggestions He was an active alcoholic which made the relationship int...

He said he "was thinking about me while getting his lapdances,"and thinks it's not cheating. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - My bf, J (23) and I(25) are both military and have been together nearly 3 yrs, mostly long distance (we're 10 hrs apart now). At the start, we made boundaries for cheating. Since we're both jealous, we said kissing, flirting and all the various ...

Am I justified in feeling really worried that this secret will get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - The other night I fooled around with this guy who has a gf and I feel so guilty. I don't even fancy him at all i was sooo drunk I know it's not an exuse but I never usually get that drunk and I'm absolutely disgusted in my self now and can't stop...

I need advice on my FWB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - I became friends with benefits with my best guy friend. we've been best friends since forever and this wasnt something we talked about and decided to get into. Living together sort of just progressed into more things and then sex. he has a girlfrie...

Why do I feel like the old wounds are being opened again after 7 months apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were on and off for few years and we lived 4 hours apart. We were planning to meet up last time but the plans kept falling through because of conflicting schedules .Then he ended up meeting someone closer. He had met other females wh...

What is he really playing at? He says he's working there. I think he has had a baby with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Six month's ago I found a new fb page of my current bf, which said in a relationship with someone else, when I confronted him he denied it and removed the account saying his brother made it. Anyway I kept the girls name and every now and then I g...

When he flirts he says he's just being friendly. I need advice in any way you think is needed to deal with his behaviour please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Ok hi so this is my story. I’m 20 n my boyfriend is 33 he has 3 kids ages 7-12 I think. I don’t have any kids. We’re together one year six months . the people around us think that we shouldn’t be together for various reasons. When we now got...

How do I stop having feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I need advice...i am female 30years old and when i was around 19 years old i met a young girl 15 years old in high school...we clicked and have been friends ever since. She was in a lower class than me but some how we were attracted t...

My Bf discovered I was flirting with guys on Tinder.So we broke up. How can I convince my now ex-Bf he is the only one for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - My long term bf has found out Ive been harmlessly flirting with guys on tinder without wanting to meet them. It was just harmless. We had a bust up over me going on dating sites and we were broken up for for a month. I never wanted anybody else...

How do I deal with my husband's secret instagram profiles?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been together for a few years now. I don't really question his being physically faithful. We spend our weekends together, he rarely hangs out with friends or looks secretive on his phone. The other day i was going through ...

I need help coping with betrayal by my longterm partner, as I'm stuck living with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I am looking for some advice... I am a 29 year old female, I've been with the same person long term for years now, having lived together with eachother for the past almost three years. In January of this year, after some investigating, I caug...

How do I end things with my partner so I can date the guy I truly want to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3481 days ago

9 June 2015 (M) - I've Been with my boyfriend for 7 years this year and always thought I'd spend the rest of my life with him. He's the only person I've ever slept with and considered him my soulmate . Btw were both gay males. He has had numerous girlfriends before ...

I fell for my friend's ex but I think she was using me to get back at him because he cheated on her with a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

8 June 2015 (M) - so i once asked advice about dating my friend's ex-girlfriend. it was well adviced here on cupid.we kept chatting though and we were getting too serious but stil not officially dating. long story short maybe she got talking with my friend again and ...

I need help leaving this married man. I just can't do it!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - I have been here many times before. I am the loser who is in love with a married man. I know I need to leave but I just can't find it in myself to do it. I know he doesn't love me. He told me. And he told me he will never love me. I have ...

My love life is falling apart again! My boyfriend seems to have lost his sex drive and I have a dear friend flirting with me making me feel desirable! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - My love life is falling apart. I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love dearly. He is kind and sensitive and I really am the centre of his world. The issue is that for the past two months we haven't had sex. It's making me insecure. I've got issues ...

He's destroyed my self esteem. How do I move on from being used, by my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

7 June 2015 (F) - Hi All, I have a problem. I'm 27 born in the uk my ethnicity is caribbean. My nigerian boyfriend of 2yrs have been pretending to be in a relationship with me the whole we were together. He has dumped me before in 2013 saying he cant give me the ...

My boyfriend cheated in a past relationship! Should I leave him before he cheats on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - If my boyfriend cheated on his ex girlfriend (this was before he knew me or was dating me) would he also cheat on me? As far as I know (from what he has told me) he only cheated once. Do you think I should end our relationship now because he WILL ...

I can't remember if I cheated on my fiance, or not, last year, as I was so drunk. Should I tell my fiance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - My fiance are together seven years, and for two years we struggled with infertility, which had us fighting a lot and caused a lot of resentment, stress and guilt for me. I felt like I had failed him, I couldnt give him what he wanted most. Last y...

Can a married man fall in love with another woman, yet never leave his wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - Can a married man fall in love with another woman he has been with for 2-3 years but never leave his wife?...

Would you ever ask your spouse to take a lie detector test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - If you thought that your spouse was cheating on you or was doing something weird but never had any evidence except weird behavior and lack of affection. Would you ask them to take a lie detector test? Why or why not? No missing time. No...

How do I stop X, (B’s father) having sex with me?. Don't want B (my Bf) to find out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - I am a 34 year old woman and have been living with my boyfriend, C, since I divorced my husband fifteen years ago. Both C and I love having sex and we have at least twice a day. C's widowed father, X, 57 years old, lives with us. In January ...

Do I confront him or stop talking to him because of his dating site profiles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3489 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - i met a man online and he's 3 years younger at 25 now 28 and doing very well for himself. We have been together 2.5 years now and have been there to listen and comfort each other when life threw setbacks at us despite us being more than 2000 mil...

He's told me that I'm the ONE. Should I move on and forget him? Or should I try to get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - Ok so I have a guy friend who told me yesterday that I was "the one". That he would leave any girl to be with me and doesn't know what he would do without me and asked for one last kiss goodbye. After he asked me what I thought of him and I told h...

I know I don't measure up to her ex. But how can I make my self more attractive to my fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

1 June 2015 (M) - I have been with my fiancé for 12yrs and we haven't had sex for the last 11yrs. I feel way too insecure to have sex with her because I am very fat and I have a very small penis (less than 3" erect) but I don't want to leave as she is my best frie...

Why is boyfriend online on Whassap during the night? He does not check phone or get up when he stays with me. Is he out flirting or cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - Hi all. I know this may come across as a bit of an immature question but my boyfreind got Whassap a couple of months ago and his last seen times are during the night. Sometimes like 4 or 5 AM. When I stay the night with him, he never gets up and ...