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Archived questions from: January, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My best friend has been married for one week and her new husband has already tried it on with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - My best friend got married a week ago and yesterday her husband phoned me saying he wanted to meet up to arrange a surprise hair appointment for his wife. As the conversation progressed, it transpired that he actually wanted to meet for a bit of ...

Checking time on boyfriend's phone lead me to find his cheating texts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7065 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years,and i really love him and thought he loved me,until when we were away the other week.I was very ill, and he had left me to recover in our hotel room.The room didnt have a clock and we were using his ...

My lover dropped a bombshell: His wife is pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

28 January 2005 (?) - I have only been married for 2 and a half years an although i did love my husband very much its faded away, we have only had sex twice in the last 2 years and it was very brief to say the least. He is always working his job comes before me and our ...

I just HATE my boyfriend, but love his cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7058 days ago

27 January 2005 (?) - I've found myself hating my current boyfriend of 5 years. I can't stand him near me. We havent had sex in about a year because I dont want to. He never helps round the house or with the kids. I've also been spending alot of time with his cousin a...

When does it stop hurting after a cheat has confessed? Feel like I'm living a lie...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7235 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - My husband confessed that he had been unfaithful. After much soul seaching and many tears on both sides we decided that we still loved each other and wanted to try and save our relationship. It has been a difficult time and he thinks that all is p...

Should I trust my boyfriend... Who has "commitment issues"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I need your advice. I am 19, been with my boyfriend (23) for two years. He has a 4 year old boy from a previous relationship. He has big committment issues. I think it is because his ex was so horrible to him and wouldn't let him see his boy at ...

Scared and don't know where to run (long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7236 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - I feel like I am going mad. I am no saint, but deeply unhappy. I need help and advice badly. A couple of years ago I moved with my boyfriend to Wales. I took a job there and was bullied by the other staff members so badly that I ended up being o...

Should I stay with Kevin and get my heart broken... Again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7230 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - i have a really bad problem i have been with my boyfriend kevin for 18 months but he has cheated on me 2 times but i took him back and forgave him but i still cant trust him because im so scared he is going to do it again i dont know weather to ...

My drunken night of carnage with male strippers: Worried I'll be the next "Paris Hilton"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I'm consulting you about something that happened last year and the more I think about what happened the more I worry. I'm 35 and have been married for nearly 5 years. Some friends (during a girls night out) suggested we go to see some male st...

Should I give up on my emotionally barren husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I have been married for 12 years. My husband is practally very suportive but emotional and intimately barren. He is also verbally abusive and threatens physical violence. He has a bad temper and easily erupts. Two years ago I had a brief liaison ...

Went out, got drunk, snogged another guy and now my so-called friends have told him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - i had been going out with a young man for nearly a month and was beging to fall for him when.. i went out on friday and snogged another man, two of my (mates) told him and said that i had been seeing this man ever since i got together with my ...

I am married and cheating, and looking for advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7239 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I met this man on messenger about four months ago. We started to get feelings for each other very quickly, and agreed to meet up in January (4 months after we first 'met'), we are both married with children, and no longer love our partners, we had a...

Will I ever mean as much to cheating married man I'm seeing, as his dying wife?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7211 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Hi. For just over a year now I've been seeing a guy who is 14 years older than me. I love this man more than I ever thought was possible but things have become very tough. We were friends for several years before that & from the start I knew he ...

I went to the US, tried a relationship which didn't work. Can I pretend nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7241 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I am 28 and foolish. I was in a four year relationship when I went away (hols) and met a guy who I knew for a week. I quit my relationship. I didn't tell my friends why I was leaving but i moved to the US to live with the new guy, after ...

Does the desire to cheat and be satisfied make me selfish

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - I have been having problems with my husband lately and i am starting to feel that maybe we are growing apart. We have only been married for 18months and have a 9month old son. Since being married my husband has had an accident and cannot return to ...

Don't feel like I am falling in love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

19 January 2005 (?) - I have a been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months, and although he is wonderful and treats me well, like his first priority and tells me he loves me (in which I do too), I really don't feel like I am properly falling in love with him. Its ...

Think I've blown it with my new girlfriend when we talked about "cheating"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend has always said that people who cheat on there partners are disgusting. She has always felt strongly about this. Her friend who stays with her partner because he is well off and treats him terible slept with an ex boyfriend the other ...

My giflfriend cheated on me with a friend, now I don't know how to tell people we have split

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7244 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - My girlfried recently cheated on me after we had a row. We had been arguing a lot and have been on and off for four years but this time were trying to give things a proper go. The problem is she has only moved back to the area recently so only...

I broke up with my girl and she slept with my friend that very night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7206 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have recently got back together with an ex girlfried. We were together on and off for four years. She moved away when we split up 8 months ago and moved back to where I live to be with me. I kind of always thought in the back of my mind thing...

Took my new woman to a party, where she slept with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7229 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have been interested in a woman for a long while now, just over 6 months. We have chatted online and on the fone and saw each other a few times. Me and a few lads were have a little party for my m8s birthday, and her and her friend came, I was ...

I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust the girl who is texting him. Should I call her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have being seeing eachother for at least a year and a half. We spend all our time together and i love him alot, he is the most important person in my life. I came across the other day that when he went to the toil...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me with her text-message lover

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for three years and mostly it has been good. I wouldn't call myself a jealous or controlling bloke, but recently I've noticed that my girlfriend has been talking to a man every day, by text and on the ...

Will things ever be the same with my boyfriend after my mistake with text guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - About two years ago I started texting this guy I had met at the local shops just for fun and as friends which I stated to him from the begining and he agreed. It was all as I said for a bit until he asked me to meet him for a small drink one ...

My father died, turns out he was having affairs; now my best friend has slept with my girl while I am away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7246 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Recently my relationship changed into a long distance variety as my father passed away and I’ve had to go aboard to see to my mother's needs. It turns out that my father had been cheating on my mother and I've now got the unwelcome additi...

My wife and I are now more friends than lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7248 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I've started to feel that my wife (of 5 years) and I have become more like friends than lovers... To compound this, I've got a lot of stuff going on in my life that is really getting me down. I recently met a new woman at work, and when she look...

My love for married womaniser man who has affair after affair...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Up until 1 month ago I had an affair with a married man which had lasted altogether about 5 years. I really loved him and I thought that he felt the same way. When I first knew him it was through work and later found out that he was seeing other ...

I'm married but I fancy a woman at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7258 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am 42, and i have been married for 18 years. My wife (41) is the only sexual partner i have ever had, maybe because i have never pushed to bed someone else or i have always had all i need. About 7 years ago i noticed a woman that works in the same ...

Why is this girl messing me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7257 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Well, where do I start ? I met a girl about 7 months ago. We moved in together as friends. We were friends for about a month and then started dating. We were together for 6 months. She has a 6 year old son who looks at me like his dad and hugs me, ...

I know my husband if having an affair how can I catch him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I just know my husband is having an affair. I have seen saucy text messages from her on his phone but when I tried to confront him, he says that she is just a mate that he meets for coffee when he is at college. I know that he has been out with he...

My first love moved back to town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7259 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - Okay, the old cliché "I'm stuck between the man I love and the man I'm in love with." that's never been more true. I'm dating this guy, and he's amazing! He spoils me to death and he holds me close everyday and tells me he loves me. We've been ...

Why is it hard to prove I'm not cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - Why is it so hard to prove to your wife that I'm not cheating?...

Husbands wants one-night stand with my sister!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - my husband is insisting he sleep with my sister for a one night stand me and our child live with him i cant get him to see its wrong to have these feeling and he is saying all the time if he dont get her hes leaving i need help please tell me what ...

The guy I fancy already has a g/f but she's long-distance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6899 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - He's wonderful. I don't think that I could have asked for a better friend. We met this past June through a mutual friend and we've seen each other almost everyday since then. Naturally I began to see him as more than a friend but I put that out ...

My perfect ex is back on the scene

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7259 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - Let me lay out the whole story to you first. My ex and I dated for 3 years. We have been separated now for over a year. I used to be a tempermental teenage girl and he was a conservative college guy. We had our fights, and he didn't like how...

I'm married but have been in love with another man for 13 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7256 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I am 28 years old, married for 5 years (dating and married 10 years all together) and we have two children. My problem is that I am soulfully in love with another man and have been for 13 years.(This man also shares my feelings) We were never able ...

I'm 21 and married but have fantasies about his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7231 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I am 21 and have been married to my husband for 2 years. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs, we fight alot. I have recently had dreams of cheating on my husband with one of his best friends. This really excites me!! Since the dream, I have ...

Married for 11 years to my "soul-mate" but I had an affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I've been married for 11 years (together for 13 years) to the man I thought was my soul mate, but I recently had an affair with a man I met at work, we no longer work together but the attraction is this there. He says he loves me and wants us to be ...