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writes: He's wonderful. I don't think that I could have asked for a better friend. We met this past June through a mutual friend and we've seen each other almost everyday since then. Naturally I began to see him as more than a friend but I put that out of my mind. He has a g/f of almost a year but their relationship is very much (3 hour plane ride)long distance. She has already graduated college (last may) and expects him to move out with her after he graduates (this may). My trouble is that until recently we have been only friends. But on new years he had told me that he wasn't very sure if he loves her anymore and has been resisting to fall in love with me. My first thought was "Thank God I wasn't the only one!!" but there is more to it. I'm a year younger than he is so I still have another year of school left. Even if we were to get together it would still be a long distance relationship (a 2 hour car ride). Should I give him the option of 1) staying with her and us remaining friends 2)just 'let things happen' or 3)if he decides to break up with her, let us causually date until I have graduated and then we would become exclusive?
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reader, mystify +, writes (31 December 2005):
 if hes interested in you then he need to be clear to his girlfriend that things are over between them first, and you need to be clear that you wont get involved untill thats happened because if it dosent then he could easily let things carry on with noone knowing where they stand
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