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writes: My girlfriend has always said that people who cheat on there partners are disgusting. She has always felt strongly about this. Her friend who stays with her partner because he is well off and treats him terible slept with an ex boyfriend the other week but the next day she's saying she feels awfull about it but still threatens him that if he doesn't do this and that he can do one.I've only met her once but I don't like her one bit. The other night when we're talking she enters the conversation and I start saying how I cant stand her because of the way she is and what she did the other week with an ex boyfriend Tto which she says it's ok, she only slept with him the once! I've always felt I could trust her 100% till this night. All i could say was if it's only the once and it's ok how can I trust you now if you think that. Very big argument started and we ended up falling out. She now say's she doesn't want to see or hear from me again.I think the world of her and lover her so much but she can be so stubben when she wants to be which makes me think i've blown it big time. Did I over react? If she loves me as much as she says she does will she calm down and want me back or do friends win out in the end? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
Your girlfriend probably made a point of telling you that she hates cheats as a warning not to cheat and to let you know that she wouldn't stand for it. When the situation doesn't affect her then she is obviously more lenient.
If she loves you then she won't let an argument over her friends morals get in the way. Write , call , or text once more and tell her that you trust her and that her friends personal life is not your business. If you don't hear from her then I think she was using the argument as an excuse to finish things
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