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writes: i have a really bad problem i have been with my boyfriend kevin for 18 months but he has cheated on me 2 times but i took him back and forgave him but i still cant trust him because im so scared he is going to do it again i dont know weather to finish it and make a new start or stay with him but the thought that keeps going through my head is that if i stay with him im going to get my heart broken again he says he will never cheat on me again but i dont believe him and thats making me feel bad what am i going to do coz i really do love him help!!!!
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Starr, writes (3 February 2005): First of all love is a powerful thing but if it isn't given in return there is no use in giving it away.Why be with a person who hurt you? There is a reason why you two broke up don't forget it.Think to yourself would it be okay to be back with this person only to worry about him doing it to me again,only to feel insecure and paranoid? Would'nt it be smarter to leave him where he stands and start fresh with someone new who could possibly love and treat you better?Life is hard I know and it's hard to make such drastic moves when you love someone that much but it's better to feel pain now and have it last for a little while then to get caught up in more feelings and and experience the whole thing all over again.
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