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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I tell a sexting creep I'm not interested without hurting him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

31 December 2016 (F) - Hi every one, I need help to tell him I'm nit interested. I had a one night stand about 5 months ago, and have been texting him since. But he has tried sexting me for a few weeks now, I keep trying to change the subject, but he's not getting ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

I just broke up with my BF and I am upset. Any advice. please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - I told my boyfriend of almost 7 months that I loved him. He didn't say it back. I asked him why and he said he just doesn't feel that way. And that when he feels it he will let me know. He had a very nice ex girlfriend for two years and he sai...

What do I do? Don't want to split up. Yet also don't want a Bf who behaves like a cheater 2.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - hiya everyone me and my fiance have been together for 3 years. A few month ago he started to add women on facebook the women he added were the type of women he said he would like as a girlfriend. I asked him why he was adding them (he hardly uses ...

Why is this happening? He has no time for me. I am fed up and ready to just walk away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for four years now we have three girls together and now we are having problems because he doesn't involve me in any part of his life what so ever. He doesn't invite me out anywhere when he goes out with his...

I've given her support over the years. But now she seems to have dropped me. Should I just accept her rejection and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My friend is mad at me after constantly asking me for advice and not liking my advice. Okay I have this friend from college - we met in class 3 years ago and kept an in-class friendship, we messaged almost every day on Facebook but we live 3 ho...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

Can our relationship work? we have a baby on the way but the father of the baby has an addiction. Should I break up with him and move back with family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - We have a baby on the way and he is addicted to marijuana. I had my own personal addiction to it myself but after realizing I was with child, I don't need it anymore. I want my child to have the extra money instead and to use it to benefit as a fam...

My ex fiance treats me like a best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - My ex fiancé broke up with me 4 months ago. We were together for almost four years. At first she needed space and was confused because she couldn't get over issues in our past. She wanted time and for me to back off and give her space. We have ...

Did he ever love me at all? Is he a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2885 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - I am here to vent/advice/ any input at all.. I am starting to think and believe my ex boyfriend was a narcissist. and wondering if he ever loved me at all. he and I were together for a couple years "in love" and would introduce me to friends and f...

How do I break these patterns in my relationship? Where I find it easier to breakup than to actually work on resolving things in the

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2885 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and for that reason I feel It is not where it would be if I were with the person regularly. I don't feel I can ask him things or I can't tell if it's too soon or if I'm imposing too much on him etc...my default ...

Did I make the correct decision ending the "fwb"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

26 December 2016 (F) - We only made out once. No sex. Nothing more than just kissing and touching to be honest. He was very affectionate (kissing forehead, hands, etc) We've been talking everyday for the past 4 months (but I knew him from like 7 yrs ago but only reconnec...

Are my reasons for not trusting her valid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

24 December 2016 (M) - I don't know if I should stay in my relationship. At times it is excellent she can be thoughtful, giving, and highly sexually charged and also will spend a great deal of time just making sure I'm okay, but I find it very hard to trust her she has a ...

Am I behaving like a stalker?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - Stalkerish or Nah? Ok so..... I'm curious as to what people think. Grateful to anyone who reads this longness.... I just want to give perspective. I dated someone for about the last 7 months..... He was great, we were great, things were coo...

Should I just move on? I don't want to be in the way of them remaking a family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - I'm wondering if I'm being over sensitive to my boyfriend's need to "play family" with his ex and his children. Every week it seems, on his week's with the kids, she's over for some reason or another. He kept the house, she cheated on him a...

My boyfriend is depressed. Is he likely to come back when he's cooled down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of a year dumped me because he thinks "he's too depressing" for me and he's in a bad place right now. I told him I was okay with it and I'd do anything to make him feel better if he just opened up a little, but he insisted we broke it...

Why would my guy friend think I should continue to listen to him talking about his past relationships with other women? What should I say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid,my guy friend and I have been friends for a while and we wanted to take it to a next level but today we had a little spat it's crazy to me but it's whatever. Long story short he has a thing for high yellow complexed women and that's f...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

How can I stop her spreading false rumours ? How can I get her to fess up and tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - I had a friend who I used to be close to some years back. I used to babysit her children when she was in hospital free of charge and generally be helpful. As the years passed the friendship changed. I moved to a more distant area and she rarely ...

I can't take any more with this man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - Help me please iam getting emontion abused. i have lost nearly 9 stone but he calls me fatty.wobbly and he knows iam hurt by it but laughts and carrys on.does a day go by when he never done it. I do everything for him.he dont seem to be happy unless ...

I love her but don't know to what extent I love her

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

19 December 2016 (M) - I am facing a dilemma. Whether to marry, or to leave my girlfriend. I am inexperienced, and I need your opinion on what our relationship looks like to you, and what you think I should do. I also would like to hear what you think is important in a ...

The LDR visit is not going well and I'm completely lost as to what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (M) - Hi, I'm currently 8 months in to a LDR, (we're separated by 10000 miles) and I've just arrived at hers two days ago for a three week visit. The problem I now have is that from the moment I landed she's been off, we've had a chat and she's now to...

Is he a keeper? After all the white lies I'm starting to doubt my partner of 6 years.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Hi there, thanks for looking :) - I'll try to keep this brief! I've been with my partner for 6 years, living together for 2. I'm 24 and he's 26, and we are usually very close. He's actually a super sweet guy - all my friends think so, and hes kind...

Should I stay or go? If I walk away from this, then what if I never meet anyone else who will love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend 3 and a bit years and we've lived together just over a year. We've just put down a deposit on our first home together and everything should be great but I have doubts. My boyfriend used to be so sweet an...

I feel as though everything in my life is slowly falling apart. But how can I start to address these issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Where did it all go wrong? :( I've never had a large circle of friends but I was happy on my last year a total school, having roughly about 5-7 friends whom I spoke with daily. As we all parted for our next journey, we lost touch. I now only sp...

I want respect. I packed up and left him after he disregarded our agreement - but how can I demonstrate or convince that I'm not trying to be controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Before I got with my boyfriend I knew he took drugs; weed and cocaine. I really don't like it so when we first started dating I asked how we would work in a relationship, how would we ever live together as I don't want it around me. He assured ...

Karma. is it a real thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

17 December 2016 (M) - Ladies, a question about carma, when you let someone else, get your life all screwed up, you know, treat them fantastic , thought you were doing everything just right, never argue, fight just alot of good times, but you actually didn't see the red ...

Can't get over his cheating on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - A relationship of a year ended at the beginning of June. I talked to him before we parted way and felt like I got the closure that I needed. I got over it quite quickly and starting seeing other people. It only just so happens that I ended up on ...

How to let go, when I still love him? Do I walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - I've just recently split with someone that I was with since April. We ended on good terms but he said that he doesn't want to be with me because his head's all over at the minute. I've told him that I want to be here to support him and we'll ge...

Do I walk away and let everything go even though I still love him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - I've just recently split with someone that I was with since April. We ended on good terms but he said that he doesn't want to be with me because his heads all over at the minute. I've told him that I want to be here to support him and we'll ge...

What should I say? How can I find out where I stand, without sounding annoying to him ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - Hi!! Back in October a 5 month relationship ended because we decided to give each other a little space. On one weekend I went to an ex's house because he was having a get together with a few friends. Sketchy as it sounds nothing at all happened...

I stil have feelings for my ex, but I don't know what to do next. How can I move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

12 December 2016 (M) - Desperate need for advice. Sorry for the super long story. I broke up with my ex girlfriend a year ago now. I feel that I still have lingering feeling for her. She was my very first girlfriend and for some reason I just can't help but think she...

Is it time to leave this relationship? I'm starting to feel like a roommate or a good friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - 29 F dating 29 M for approximately 1.5 years. My relationship has been rocky from the start. My boyfriend has always pushed the limit with flirting with girls or talking about them. Last month he texted a girl to send him pictures while o...

Is it over? Was he cheating? I suggested that we finish the relationship and he just accepted it, as if he's given up.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - Hi i recently started distancing myself from my bf of 2 years as we were having a lot of problems(no intimacy for 6 months been the main problem+talking/flirting to girls online i suspected).. Plus told him after a month of hardly seeing him i wa...

It's not really a relationship anymore. Do I stay or Do I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a long term relationship of over 3 years, my man and I have both different careers and are both in University- we do see each other as much as possible. But the romance is dead- I've never been taken on a date, I can't re...

What do you do when your partner out of nowhere suddenly says that they don't love you anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

8 December 2016 (M) - What do you do when your partner of 12 years (wife for 2 1/2) suddenly tells you out of the blue she no longer loves, feels attracted to you and knows without any doubt this is how she feels? I busted her whilst she was on a night out texting some...

I know I should end things but I can't imagine him not being in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship with someone for almost 14 years. We became engaged in 2014. There are so many problems with this relationship it is impossible to list. Starting with alcoholism (him), cheating (him), lies (him), etc. I am no angel but ...

My relationship is completely boring and dead but I don't see a way out..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

6 December 2016 (M) - I been with my gf for 3 years. I see her for 1-2 days every week or two. Usually the fun for her wears off after few hours, how she treats me when I arrive to couple hours later. She never really does anything for me anymore, any cooking. I have to ...

How can I stop being addicted to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - How can one make love not so important? It seems that I'm always thinking about love (I'm single) and thirty 32 but ever since I can remember it's always been 90 percent of my life- I've lost jobs for men - I've gotten into arguments with my family ...

My relationship is really, really troubled!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) - hey yesterday my partner started an argument about me spending £3 on a game i knew it was a pointless argument which is why walked away i stayed in another room away from her she was adamant she was right to shout at me for this and said she was not ...

Is it over or not? Should I text her something? Try calling again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) - I don't know if it's over or not. She's 35. We met about a month ago and hit it off really well on our first date, so we've been seeing each other regularly since then. She recently invited me to see her at a dance competition. I met her friends ...

I don't know whether I should take her back or not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

2 December 2016 (M) - My girlfriend is in the us at college and I'm in the uk working, we are both British and 18 and have been together for a year. She met a friend at college very soon at August time (let's call him Jim) and he was just a friend, she told me this...