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writes:We only made out once. No sex. Nothing more than just kissing and touching to be honest. He was very affectionate (kissing forehead, hands, etc) We've been talking everyday for the past 4 months (but I knew him from like 7 yrs ago but only reconnected recently after MY breakup). I guess I told him off yesterday that I didn't like this whole "friendship" and I was uncomfortable with it and wanted to end it. He told he was disappointed that I know nothing of him, and that he's sad I've thought wrongly of him all these while. I didn't reply. That was yesterday and we haven't talked. What do you think he meant when he said I've thought wrongly of him? :/ I shouldn't regret it right? I mean, if I feel like all I'll be is just like a fwb?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2017):
 I think you should ask him what he meant. Talk to him and if you like him then tell him, be honest with him.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (27 December 2016):
 Did you actually agree this would be a FWB arrangement? Or did you just assume it would be?
You two really do need to talk and clarify where you are both coming from. It would be a shame to throw away a potentially good relationship because neither of you has been clear about what you want.
Good luck. I hope you get the answers you want. If not, then leave it where it is and move on.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (27 December 2016):
When I dated I kissed and held hands and more petting later .. you know under clothes stuff . But I don't think I ever asked what we were .. maybe you could say is it just friendship or is there something more here . As I like you and I'd want to be more .. ley him answer if he says no its just friends then say that isn't for you and that's it .. chin up sweetie
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