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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I live with the man and woman who were in a relationship behind my back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - About a month ago the guy I was seeing broke it off with me. We had been friends for around six months before finally getting together and currently live together in the accomodation at our university. We were very happy and very close. He was also ...

How do I get over something like this? Are there no more morals or respect these days? I'm so hurt and I want him to feel my pain

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I have been suspicious about my fiance's activity so I broke off my engagement because he is talking and hanging out with his ex. We haven't even officially broke it off and he's been out with her and other friends. He's asked me to meet up with ...

How to re-create the spark with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for many years, broke up due to communication problems and thought we needed to part ways for awhile. We've kept in contact and have been talking about a reconciliation. During our BU, we worked on ourselves and tried ...

Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...

My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so ...

He loves porn more than he loves me. Is it normal to be so upset about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years, and the whole of our relationship he has never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse. He says it was the same with his previous partners and it's not just me. But he is the only per...

My ex wants to take our baby away for his visits and I'm not comfortable with this. Do I have a say in the matter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi, My ex and I split up while I was pregnant and now he sees our son (9 weeks old) for about 2 hours a week at my house. He has never done a night feed alone and has never looked after him without supervision. He is saying he wants to take me...

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she s...

Why can't he face that his family is lying about me and tell them to butt out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - My partner and I of 6 years broke up three months ago, we have been trying to sort it out but I have asked him to tell hi family to butt out of our relationship, or I am not coming back. HE used to work in the family business and moved from Ireland ...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

Divorced for 2 years now. Have an amazing new guy in my life. So why can't I deal with dating and decision making? What is wrong that I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I got divorced 2 years ago, I wanted it and my ex didn't. He absolutely did nothing but just crying for 1 year. I couldn't take his family making decisions for us any more. He is 49 I am 34. It's been 2 years now and I feel extremely guilty...

Why is my ex letting me know that she's stalking my social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - I recently broke up with my gf of about a year. Throughout the relationship she was frequently insecure and jealous, but when she wasn't her love was like the sun. Eventually her jealously and insecurities made her angry, mean, and distrustful ...

To date or break up because of his unworthy friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - Hi friends, I am here to know the opinion about how I am feeling is co-related in any manner with any one of you or am I the only person feeling this way. So I'm dating a guy who is 8 years elder to me and it's only beem 6 months to this relation...

He left because after I had our children he was not attracted to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I'm sitting here pretty emotional tonight. You probably get questions having to do with this subject often, but how can a young woman work on body confidence? When I was only 19 I gave birth to beautiful twin baby girls. I had a normal pregnancy...

So confused. Can you help clarify what to do? my rebound Gf has been very good to me. My ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've gotten myself into a horrible bind. The love of my life and I split up in November. While on the rebound, I made a poor, quick decision to jump into another relationship while I was still hurting over my ex. I wound up really enjoying ...

A friend told me he loves me, but I still feel pain from my ex boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I fear having a new love story with someone who seems to be worth giving the chance. long story short, i gave my everything to my 2 and a half year old boy friend. i loved him, and maybe still love him, feared him and simply wante...

I'v lost my sex drive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I have experienced something i thought i never will. I am one of those people with a huge appetite for sex and for the last few months i have no desire for it AT ALL. This is how it all started.I had my first sex with the boyfriend i was 5 years in...

Some friends have fallen out with me over my decision to date a guy they do not like. What should I consider in all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - A group of close friends I have had have recently fallen out with me due to my decision to be with someone that they don't like. I've had an on and off relationship with a guy who I consider to be the love of my life f...

He's been on my mind nonstop. Is it up to him to ask me out? What else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Theres this guy I have known since middle school hes incredibly handsome. Well were both about 22 and i cant stop thinking about him. I would be fine but he comes to my job at least twice a week!! and sometimes i tell him to go away in since i'...

Do I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't please me and I still have feelings for my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - hi into 25 years of age and I have problem of still having feelings for the father of my child yet I'm in a relationship and it's been going on for 3 years now. my current boyfriend doesn't give me pleasure in bad he ejaculate quickly ,he gets tir...

Boyfriend's lack and concern and hygiene make me think it might be time to end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Lately I feel like Im reconsidering my relationship with my partner of 1 year. I feel like here's not there for me in the way a partner should be some e.g. my parents are going through a divorce, when I try and talk to him about it, all he says is ...

He broke up with me, but still contacts me every day ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend if 1 yr broke up with me a month ago. He felt that I was too attached and "I don't listen" or give him every thing that he demands. Ever since, he has been texting me about every detail going in his life. He doesn't text me every day ...

Does she remember the romantic times we shared .. I still miss her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

25 March 2015 (M) - Hello,well it's been a while, since, I posted anything,it's been about three years now, an I still think about my ex, it only lasted three months, I thought it was great. I treated her like an angle, her ex before me, use to beat her, treated her ...

I'm dating someone new but missing my ex and I'm so confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - This is a very confused girl dont have any idea what she wants. I broke up with my 3 years boyfriend last August 3 days after his b day(not something i'm proud of). Anyways, we had so much problems in our relationship and used to fight all the ti...

Is this a break-up? Why did he threaten me and say such cruel things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf has told me he has some work related problems, and wanted me never to talk to him anymore. Long story short, he always make mountain out of mole person and he lies often, I don't entirely but his story. Still wanted to be the...

Could there be "real love" in an emotional affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - I have realized now that I've been in a co-dependent relationship. I also married my partner of years because I didn't think I'd ever find "the one" for me and I was ok with that. All I wanted was to be able to just go through life and survive. I've ...

Is it wrong if we still see an EX as an IDEAL partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

23 March 2015 (M) - Is it wrong if we still see an EX as an IDEAL partner? Last fall I had a mundane breakup, not too dramatic or over the top, just a little saddening. This girl had very attractive characteristics like being level headed and excelling at com...

My wife's cushy life is over, but what about the child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

21 March 2015 (M) - I left home 4 months ago after finding out my wife was cheating with some unemployed junkie we hired to do yard work. I busted my butt making a living so she can stay home even thouhgh our daughter is in school now. Instead of sorry she tried to ...

I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 years but I just feel so upset. Help me please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

21 March 2015 (M) - I'm in abit of a mess.. I finished a relationship with my ex girlfriend that lasted about 8 years, she was my first love, we were like soul mates. Unfortunately, over the last year or so we argued and issues began to arise, I started to think that ...

Few questions for the guys, including why the heck do you always leave the toilet seat up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - I have a few questions for you guys. 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more like "Lets ju...

Eight days since the break up. When will I start to feel indifferent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - It's been 8 days since our BU. We were together for almost 5 years and he wasn't good for me. He brought out the absolute worst in me. I don't think he cared about me anymore as he deliberately done things to hurt/piss me off. I broke it off last ...

Should I kick my girlfriend out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

20 March 2015 (M) - So my gf moved in 6 months ago. I cant walk through my garage cuz she hasnt unpacked, its full of boxes. Ive asked her many times to put the stuff away. She refuses to get a sitter for her kid. We havent gone out in 6 months no lie. I suggest things ...

Is it normal to be so afraid to think about remarriage after divorce? Will my ex control things still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - I got divorce last year and seperated for 2.5 years before that. I was searching online as no one from my family or friends are divorced. I wanted to see how the second marriage works when you have a child, my daughter is 8 years old. What I le...

Did she really sleep with another man or is she just saying that? How do I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

19 March 2015 (M) - My gal and me had relation for almost 2 years, every thing was alright when she suddenly said that she want break up. she said that she is seeing a guy and had slept with him. after a month we were back together. Now whenever i ask about the guy she ...

After 4 years together, why does he need time away from me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - Hi DC community, My bf and I are going through some problems in the relationship and have decided to work through them. The main issue is that he is working on himself so he can be better for me, but in the mean time he doesn't want to sleep in...

Should I just ask him where we stand, or would that push him away entirely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - I'm still confused, and I'm starting to think that this guy I used to date now only sees me as friend. There has been a change in the physical/ sexual part of our relationship, but nothing else has changed. He's not seeing anyone else, and he said ...

Two months and not over it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - Its been two months so why am I not over it? I was fine until this month, he cheated and left he didn't even apologize. So why am I still sad? We go to the same school....

It was not my kid but I lost my girlfriend over it anyway. I'd like to get her back but am worried she'll take me to court!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

17 March 2015 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend with this skank from work that everybody slept with. She knew I had a girlfriend I loved and it was just sex. She wanted me to be with her but that would never happen. She told me she was pregnant and my world ended. My ...

He broke my heart and I can't trust him, but I really want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - So I need help getting over my ex, we split up last summer after being together for just over a year as i found out that he had been cheating on me after several times after i had already forgiven him for doing it once before. And the thing that ...

Any advice on giving advice to someone whose heart is broken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - So my sister-in-law is 6 months pregnant and just found out that the guy who got her pregnant doesn't want to be with her anymore. I want to give her advice but all I can manage is to tell her that he's not worth her time of he's so quick to give ...

He lied about having a wife and a kid!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I am very sad..I am dating a guy for a year so far, he is from Iraq but we both met in US..after 6 months of being together I saw a pic on facebook of him with a baby..I asked him whos this baby..he said is one of my nephews..anyway I believed ...

Just a memorial of an unrequited love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - I miss his smile, his laugh. We talked for hours and laughed so hard. He told me he loved me even though we only knew each other for a short period of time. We confided in each other so many things about our lives. I love his blue eyes and I ...

I'm in a total quandary! In love with my FWB and wondering if I should tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - I'm in a total quandary! I've been in a "friends with benefits" relationship for over two years with a guy who has a girlfriend, but whom he is mostly only with for financial "trapped" reasons. Debts and life's stresses mean it is nigh on impossible ...

I'm trying to understand if my current relationship is a rebound or not and if what I feel for this other man is real or infatuation. Non-judgmental help appreciate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - Im at a real tipping point in my relationship and I seriously need some advice, I am aware that people will judge what I say and use this as a way to pass judgement rather than help someone who is reaching out. Ok so I am in my first year of un...

Broke up recently. Have I lost the love of my life? How do I get over this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I broke up with my ex a month or two ago and recently I've been feeling very sad and melancholy. She was only girlfriend I ever had who I could see myself seriously marrying. We would look at houses and discuss what our kids would look like. She's ...

I have a huge secret crush on a woman who has become friends with my own fiancee. Do I reveal my crush, or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I'm engaged to a wonderful woman that I have been with for 8 years (since I was 18). She is a beautiful person, inside and out, and I feel terrible guilt about asking this. She has become friends with a girl (let's call her Jane) over the past two ...

How can I overcome my sexual insecurities about the other guy she had sex with? we are back together after a break and I do love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Hello ! I really need help with this question, because I'm really starting to feel as if I'm falling apart and can't calm myself. I have been with my fiancee for about 5 years, 9 months ago we broke up when I went to work in another town and we d...

After the break up, how do I fight the urge to snoop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend, of almost 5 years, yesterday morning. I'd posted on here about a week ago how he wasn't good for me yet I couldn't find it in me to leave. 2 nights ago he pushed my buttons so far that I walked away from it. Yesterday ...

We can't stop arguing, do I give this relationship up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now and few months into the relationship we began having arguments,they are just getting out of hand.we tend to argue on Petty things although my boyfriend does try and make up in the next 5 m...

My girlfriend is bisexual and I'm really uncomfortable with it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

13 March 2015 (M) - My gf is bisexual and I'm really uncomfortable with it. I feel this way because we've had some issues where she was making lustful statements about women she knew on social media and basically flirting with other women while we were together. When I ...