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*issAnnonimus
writes:I have experienced something i thought i never will.I am one of those people with a huge appetite for sex and for the last few months i have no desire for it AT ALL.This is how it all started.I had my first sex with the boyfriend i was 5 years in a relationship with,and that was NEVER an issue,matter of fact,even though we were long together,it was always good.Than after we broke up,i had another boyfriend for a year and again amazing sex life.Than all of a sudden my second boyfriend disappeared,and i havent heard from him ever since.Than was a few months ago,and it was one of the most stressful experiences.Recently,i have made up with my 5year boyfriend,who i love more than anything,with whom i wanna continue where WE stopPed and have family and future....but ever since we got back together,we barely had sex and i feel forced into it,even though thats not really the case.The worst part is that,ever since that stressful break up occurred,i didnt feel in mood for sex.Thats has been months. What should i do?I m clueless,my boyfriend thinks i m not attracted to him anymore and i hate to hurt him that way.I told him the whole situation,and he s by my side in good and bad,but i still worry that that spark may not return.
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reader, Withoutacause  +, writes (7 April 2015):
 I could always take it or leave it until recently out of nowhere I have this sex drive and don't know why the one thing is do know is for the first time in 21 yrs im not on a contraceptive. At 13 I went on the pill I stopped this to have a baby and after he was born I got the implant I had 3 of these over 9yrs and last year had it taken out It's just a theory but worth thinking about.
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reader, Pegasos +, writes (27 March 2015):
Maybe unconciously you don't wanna be with him anymore, or you have changed and grew up, so sex isn't such a need as before. Maybe he tried something different when you weren't together and you aren't providing that. You could try each writing 3 things you want from the other in a piece of paper and either raffle it or just Reading and agreeing with 1.
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