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writes:Its been two months so why am I not over it?I was fine until this month, he cheated and left he didn't even apologize. So why am I still sad? We go to the same school. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso when he left I wanted to talk about it instead of kicking him out but he said he had class which was obviously his excuse to leave
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 March 2015):
 So it's time to make new friends - how about some females one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThing is he was my only friend at college and now I don't even have that. I am so sad.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 March 2015):
There is no expiration date on a broken heart or hurt feelings.
Him NOT owning up and apologizing is NOT a reflection on you. You didn't MAKE him cheat. HE chose to cheat.
Seeing him on an almost daily basis can make it harder to move on too.
But all in all YOU need to accept that THIS guy was NOT as good of a guy as you thought. I mean he couldn't even keep it in his pants! Accept that YOU dodged a bullet here. Now you are ACTUALLY open to DATE a DECENT guy, a guy who WILL respect you and be faithful. Though... DO NOT start dating till you can look at the ex and think, MAN I'm LUCKY to not be with that asshat!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 March 2015):
 Emotions do not run on a timetable.
it's been 8 weeks. you were fine now you are sad again
what's changed?
what are you doing to try to move on?
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (18 March 2015):
Dear OP,
A broken heart usuall needs more time to heal than two months. It's normal. You're still sad because he hurt you and didn't even ask for forgiveness. Find your anger over this, express it. Write a letter to him - don't send it - but express your feelings. Put away his stuff in a box and put the box somewhere you don't see it all the time. Delete his facebook account from your friends list, unfollow him on twitter, cut contact as far as possible.
And remember, to be happy is the best revenge.
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reader, jaquie +, writes (18 March 2015):
I am sorry to say this but if he truly loved you he would beg for you to forgive him:,(
P.S. just forget about him, but remember that does not mean go straight to another guy.
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