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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My older guy and I are being split up by his family, but I want us to work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7203 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship for around 8 months. I am 17 and the guy im with is a lot older, but that has never been a problem. Recently his ex and stepson have been causing trouble and it is spliting us up. I really love him, what should i do?...

My g/f knew for 4 years that I can't have kids, but we broke up over it just 2 weeks ago.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7135 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years. We have had our ups and downs. Two weeks ago she told me she still loved me but not the same way and wanted just friendship. I can't have kids as I've had the snip, but she is desperate for a child. ...

When things go wrong in my ex's life, she comes to me, but I want her back for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7133 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Im a 28 year old male. I was with this girl for over 4 years and we broke up about 8 months ago. She has been seeing someone else. Whenever things go wrong in her life I'm the first one she comes to. I miss her so much and want us to get back tog...

We're breaking up due to our clash of personalities, but I'm devastated and she's already seeing someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Please help me. I have just split up with my wife and I'm devastated. We have been married for 8 years, but we have had a very bumpy marriage. We have many times in the past, but this time it is serious. She has even started to see someone new. Sh...

My boyfriend is splitting hairs about his cheating. Do I give him a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Hi, my boyfriend thought that I was going to finish wih him so he cheated on me. I did finish wih him but I told him how I felt. Ever since, he has been trying to get back with me. I decided to give him one last chance, when I found out that he ...

It feels like we're only together so that he doesn't upset me, and it's weird...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - I've been seeing this boy for over a month and lately he has been different, like distant. I worry too much and it gets on his nerves, as he has a lot on his mind and I totally understand and I want to be there for him. Then today, out of nowhere,...

He claims he only comes around because I "pester" him. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Please help. I've been seeing someone casually for a while now. He won't commit to me, that's why it's casual. He says he doesn't want to be with me. I'm overweight (size 16) and he said, given a choice between me and someone whom he cybered ...

Do I tell my ex that I'm pregnant, or will he think I'm just trying to lure him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - I was recently dumped by my ex-boyfriend, and I'm really scared because something that he doesn't know is that I am pregnant with his child. I never did tell him because I was in denial. But now that everything has been clarified and I now know for ...

We keep breaking up, but I want to make it work this time. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7212 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I just broke up not even a week ago, and I miss him so much. We have been together on and off since I was a sophmore in high school. Now I am a freshman in college. The last time we got back together I had just found out that I w...

Everything seemed great, then she pulled the rug out from under our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Wow! I thought everything was going great but I found out otherwise... I am just wondering if anyone has any idea what is going on... my girlf... ex-girlfriend and I had been going out for about 3 months... but she lives out of town. Anyways, ...

His words say "I love you", but not his actions. I just want it to work out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7210 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Can someone please give me advice, I am with my boyfriend 3 years now and am finding myself getting really down and crying all the time. He is never home before 9 oclock in the evening, which is either working or in the pub, and when he does com...

It was OK that she wanted to date other guys, but she said she 'loves' me, after she ran off with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7213 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I've been dating this girl for one year and three months. We've had a wonderful relationship, and agree that we both love each other. The problem is this though, She hasn't dated really anyone before me. A few weeks ago she tells me that she...

Since we broke up, it's like he's undergone a personality transplant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7213 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - A few months ago my boyfriend and I were in a fairly serious relationship and we mutually loved each other. Being only 20 yrs old, I foolishly kissed someone else whilst on holiday with my friends. I completely regret my actions but my boyfrien...

A former friend of the family is now my ex-husband's partner and I'm still hurt...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - Why does my ex partner not want me to move on with life? He left me and 2 kids for a new partner. Kids refuse to have anything to do with dad's new partner because she used to be a friend of the family. They are happy to see their dad every day, ...

I'm so worried that my ex was cheating on me with both boys and girls. He says I'm stupid to worry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I'm gay,and afraid my ex-boyfriend was cheating on me with guys and girls! It's been nearly 5 months since my boyfriend dumped me and I'm finding it very difficult to overcome my despair and paranoia. There had been a couple of things that happened ...

Even though I knew he was a drinker and a cheater, it makes me so angry to know he cheated with her when he was with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7133 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - Had on/off partner for 18 years. Split 3 years ago, due to his drinking and cheating, although I was still heartbroken. Had separate houses, but still saw and slept together up til April 04. I thought he would come back to me but in Nov 04, we met ...

I'm "not the cause" of our separation, so what can I do to persuade him to come home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7191 days ago

19 March 2005 (?) - My husband has left me this morning for a trial separation as he says the he does not love me enough anymore. However he says that I have not been the cause. I am heart broken and want him home. What can I do?...

We broke up because he needs time "to think". Will we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7218 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend recently broke up with me, and says he needs time to think. I love him so much and he says he loves me too. I want him back so much, but what do I do?...

He left me and wants to travel, but I want him here with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7124 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I am in love with my ex-boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 years. I'm 31, he is 41 and my first love. He wants to travel around Spain. I'm gay and want to keep him....

She lies to me about the other guy and I lie to her about work and finances. Can we make this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7117 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am a male of 33 and just come out of a relationship of 4 years. It was going good until 18 months into it, when i cheated twice! I was also lying to her about financial and work issues! We tried to mend it but last August we split...

My b/f constantly tells me he loves me, but his actions say differently...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7122 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 7 months and I are going through a tough time. We are both final year students at university and recently i had a very surprising, nasty row with my housemate- due to the stress and personal nature of this i caled off the ...

It wasn't enough for him to break it off with me; he humiliated me when I tried to be friendly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7219 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - I went out with a lad for about 5 months, everything was fine at first but then towards the end he started freaking out about the '6 months' thing. I broke it off last November and heard nothing from him until today when I saw him in town and thou...

We love each other like crazy... but what do we do about his wife & my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - PLEASE HELP. I am in love with my best friend, and he feels the same way. The problem is we are both attached to other people. We don't want to hurt our partners, but dont know how to get out of this situation. His is worse, as his wife threatens t...

She says my biggest fault is I'm "too nice" and it's driving her away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7211 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - Cupid, I have a problem. Me and this girl have been together three months. We were really happy and she talked about a long term relationship, saying she wanted to be with me for years and things like that. However, recently shes been rather diff...

We're finished and all I want back is the picture I gave him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7221 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - Hi..feel in love with this great guy..We met, and he had to leave for work overseas. He's married, no kids. He did promise he was gonna come back but never did, but still says he loves me. Anyway, I have broken up with him, because he hurt me so ba...

My husband seems like he's having an affair and I want to run away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - I am a 26 year old woman that has been married for 4 years. I love my husband very much, but from the minute we got married he has been acting like someone that is having an affair. I know that he is because some things have happened that almost b...

I'd like to rekindle what we had... but she won't answer my calls or emails.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7190 days ago

14 March 2005 (?) - Reconnecting with broken relationship. Last October, I met a wonderful woman. We got to talking, and got along really well together. Our relationship started out as just friends, and we discussed that we should be just friends for a while. We...

He never talks about his feelings then he walked out on me after 5 years...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7221 days ago

13 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has walked out on me after 5 years with no explanation. I don't think there is anyone else involved. We only had our engagement party back in December. We have suffered many losses through death recently, my father, his father and his ...

He told me to "forget we ever met", but I don't know how...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7223 days ago

13 March 2005 (?) - Cupid, My boyfriend says he still loves me but has broken up with me because of the age difference between us. He says I should get over him and forget we ever met but I don't know how! I love him too much to forget him! Have you got any tips on ...

I can see the error of my ways now, but I don't know how to make it up to her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - hi, i'm a male of 21 and i've been dating a girl who i love to bits for a year and a quarter. she had an operation last week and i took the week off to look after her. on the last day she said she wanted to be friends. i was devastated and...

He treats me so mean... Is leaving him my only option?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7139 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 3 years cannot see that he is destroying me. He shows me no affection, cannot express his feelings about me, can sit and watch me cry with no emotion, avoids spending time with me, constantly sleeps, and cannot give me a straight ...

My b/f seems distant, he "doesn't know" what's wrong, but says he's "not going anywhere", either...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7228 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - I have been dating Ant for seven years, living together for 6 ½ years and got engaged 3 years ago. Everything has been going great until 4 months ago. He started acting a bit distant (not as affectionate)& told me that he didn’t know what he ...

We agreed to split... but when he went out with someone else, I decided I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7112 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - Last December I felt really fed up in my marriage of 18 months and told my husband I wanted to call it a day. At the time he told me that he understood, as it had been going downhill. At a xmas party, Ii pulled a bloke and was texting him for a wh...

I want to work it out with her, but don't know where we stand... (long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7228 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - I am 28 and she is 19. Our Relationship lasted for 7 months. For the first few months we didn’t have sex. I wanted to strengthen our communication so we could get to know each other better so I told her I wanted to hold off on sex so it wasn’t a...

We agree it's time to leave... but what's the first step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7222 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - How do I take the first steps to leaving a husband that I no longer love, and who no longer loves me? I am in quite a bit of debt, and although I enjoy the job I have, it's not very well paid. I cannot afford to rent or buy another house. ...

I want his love, but he said he wanted my "companionship"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I still love him so much. I tried everything to get this guy off my mind. When I told him that I loved him so much, he answered, that it scared him, as he didn't know what could be around the corner. I told him why wait for this corner to come, ...

How do I get over the loss of his leaving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7234 days ago

2 March 2005 (?) - Dear helper, I am a 15 year old girl and I have a very bad feeling in me all the time. I have just recently split up with my long term boyfriend who is the same age as me. I cannot get over him, we are still mates and I see him almost e...

Our passion's dying and I think I want out...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

2 March 2005 (?) - I’ve been going out with my girlfriend for two years now, and I do love her very much. However recently the passion in our relationship has noticeably dropped in the last few months. (Sex is almost negotiated sometimes!) I’ve found myself fli...

How can I break up with my current boyfriend and not mention the other man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7233 days ago

2 March 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and I wanted to settle down and have children about 2 years ago. He constantly said "it'll happen one day when I'm ready" every time I mentioned it. In October last year I met someone else who lives in...

Any advice..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7235 days ago

1 March 2005 (?) - How do you get over some one that you over love?...

I made a heartless remark and made things even worse, but I still don't want to lose her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7235 days ago

1 March 2005 (?) - I feel that my girlfriend is leaving me after some unfortunate events. She was having a baby and then I told her because we were fighting that I will not date her anymore until her mother dies. Which her mother could be about dying. She has ...