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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and I wanted to settle down and have children about 2 years ago. He constantly said "it'll happen one day when I'm ready" every time I mentioned it. In October last year I met someone else who lives in the US and I have really fallen for him. I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I want to leave him, especially now because he has started to talk about settling down and having children since Christmas, after all this time. I waited so long for him to say yes to a real future together and now that he has started to talk about it I feel so guilty because I want to leave him and move to the States. We own the house together too. I just want to know the best way to tell him that it's over without mentioning the other man in my life. He hasn't really done anything wrong so I want to try and let him down as gently as possible.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, gemma, writes (3 March 2005): hi it's going to be really hard to let your boyfriend down gently he will be hurt either way, but just tell him that u have grown apart and u feel differen.t tell him u still want to be friends and u will always be there 4 him but u need a break. hope it all works out mate.
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