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writes: I feel that my girlfriend is leaving me after some unfortunate events. She was having a baby and then I told her because we were fighting that I will not date her anymore until her mother dies. Which her mother could be about dying. She has emphysema and heart problems. This was not the right thing to say. My girlfriend fell over and lost the baby. She was become more irritable lost interest it seems in talking to me and fails to call even when she promises to. I am getting frustrated and don't know what to do. Please help me I don't want to lose her. Oh, and she doesn't communicate even when I confront her about it. She just says 'I'll try' then blows me off. We have been through a whole lot together and I don't know what's going on. Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Amazed AA!, writes (1 March 2005): I am sorry but you are being VERY selfish in this situation. Her mother is about to die, her baby just did!! What are you thinking! This is not about you! Your girlfriend is at a crossroads and you need to be there for her to keep her head high and her heart full or she is going to be on a slippery slope to self distruction. You may feel unloved or useless but you NEED to show her that you are going to there no matter what - not pressure her and blackmail her to fall out with her mother over you and what you said was indeed very heartless. A mother and daughters relationship is not compairable to a gf/bf relationship. Your mother is your rock and you seem to be hacking away at that relationship and sooner or later she is going to hack away at yours. Stop this foolishness before you lose her all together!
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