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writes: I am a 26 year old woman that has been married for 4 years. I love my husband very much, but from the minute we got married he has been acting like someone that is having an affair.I know that he is because some things have happened that almost brought serious trouble between him and a certain girl. He never says he loves me and is always ashamed to be in public with me. He never takes me out and never finds the time to talk with me.Sometimes I want to cuddle up with him, but he is never in the mood. I have tried to run away from this relationship but for the fact that we have three kids together.I don't even have any money or relations that can help me.I am stuck and don't know what to do. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): i feel the same way you feel. My husband doesn't spend time with me either. we have 4 children together. He doesn't tell me that he loves me. He's always angry all the time. He yelled at me really bad one day. I thought he was losing is mind. I'm ready to leave, but i just dont have the nerves yet. I'm planning and thinking about it. I've been married for 9 years. i'm a female
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2005): You sound like a girl who got married too early. You sound like you need to play the field more. Either confront your husband about what he is doing to you or separate from him. I know it it hard with 3 kids but many people do it these days. It is not your fault about your husband so you must not blame yourself. Or tell him you need a life too and go out with out him. He will soon start to feel the same as you did and you will also feel better because you are having fun too.Trust me; this works. I found myself in your position 2 years ago. It is hard. I sympatise with you. You're not alone.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (15 March 2005):
 Do you want to leave him? You say that you love him very much but you don't get very much, if anything, from your marriage. You deserve much better than this.Have you tried talking to your husband about how you feel? Have you told him how unhappy you are?You sound very isolated. I am assuming you don't have many friends to turn to?I think you need to reach out for help to organisations that could assist you. Have you considered seeing a solicitor?An organisation that really could help you is Women's Aid. They recognise abusive relationships and how confidence and self esteem can plummet as a result. They will assist you in reaching a decision about your husband. You can find the number in the phone directory or the internet.I wish you well.
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