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writes: Dear cupid, I am in love with my ex-boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 years. I'm 31, he is 41 and my first love. He wants to travel around Spain. I'm gay and want to keep him.
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reader, Dear Kelly +, writes (20 June 2005):
Well 11 years is a long time,but for him to want to go off to spain without you is surely saying something?> It sounds like your relationship has no come to a end.....Did he give you the option to go with him>? did you refuse?why couldnt you go with him too?I guess without knowing these questions its abit hard to answer, but from what I unerstand in a happy realationshop with 2 commited partners, you do these things 'together as a couple and decide whats best for each of you, both and as a pair.It seems to me your partner has choosen his route and you are not included therefore, what more can you do apart from try to get over him and move on...
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